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AAkasha -> talking about no sex submission (8/2/2013 10:27:56 PM)
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My best (non kinky, but kink curious - she is amused at my femdom stuff and has observed and semi participated a handful of times in our 20 year friendship) go to the same place for lunch 3-4 times a month. We have a flirtatious, cute waiter, probably in his mid 20s. We know most of his story. We're obviously cougar territory to him. We flirt but it's always harmless. We talk a lot about travel with him. He's very handsome, in great shape, and a very attentive gentleman.
She and I are planning a girls' vacation to Hawaii. What started as a joke has turned into something we may pursue. Because we joked with him once when we told him we were off to Vegas for the weekend and maybe we'd take him along to carry our bags and bring us drinks he said "I would SO do that for you ladies!"
We are thinking of paying for his plane ticket, getting him an adjoining room, and having him come with us to be our "butler" and personal assistant. To carry our bags, handle our various reservations, accompany us to bars (bodyguard, lol), bring us drinks when we are on the beach or at the pool, carry our bags when shopping. There would be no sex, not even any joking "massages," no riff raff, no bondage, no overtones. Both of us have very attentive husbands and when traveling like to have things just "handled." We would draw this up in writing so he knew exactly what we meant.
He does not have a girlfriend. We are pretty certain of his character as we've know him now nearly 2 years. Yes, part of this is because he's handsome, has an awesome body, and we'd enjoy just sitting on the beach watching him walk around and get stared at but know he's our property basically. We have no risk of falling into a threesome - our wild days are long behind and we have great self control.
As a femdom, this scenario is HIGHLY appealing to me on an emotional level, and there is "no sex involved." To my "non kinky friend" it is also very appealing (I saw every woman probably has a smidgen of femdom in her). To any sub who thinks "hell I would do this in a heartbeat" this isn't an application request, I mean I would totally consider requests but realistically there's NO way to be safe with strangers - you know that. And that goes for your safety too. Plus imagine if there's zero level of chemistry and you are stuck somewhere.
Has anyone ever had a totally platonic, friendship-based service weekend of this kind? What were any snags? We also plan to have a schedule and he'd have "free time." I also thought I would state that we'd pay for all his meals but with a caveat of a drink limit; not that I want to be an ass, but I have NO idea if he's a big drinker and if he wants to go out and party all night after we turn in, he should pay for that, right?
Akasha
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