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PlayfulLibra -> Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/3/2013 10:04:45 AM)
Hi folks! Okay, so I really enjoy things in my butt. But my boyfriend's cock is really hard to take. Being a masochist, I can handle a lot of pain, but for some reason anal is NOT an easy task with his size. Do y'all have any suggestions on how to make anal easier? What do you recommend? More lube? Exercises? Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks!

Hillwilliam -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/3/2013 10:13:30 AM)
1. Lots more lube. Too much is almost enough. 2. Spoon fashion. The man has to lie totally STILL and let the woman control the pressure and speed of entry. After things are loosened up nicely, she can signal him to start thrusting. One thing you have to remember is that once the first sphincter relaxes, there is a second one to deal with several inches in if you happen to be able to go that deep. It takes just as much time to relax as the first one did. Then, give her hell [sm=evil.gif]

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/3/2013 10:16:59 AM)
Check out some of the posts on this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4216049/mpage_1/tm.htm And this one: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4005165/mpage_2/tm.htm My own comments from the second thread: I love anal, but then I'm with someone how knows how to do it. You really can't use enough lube, and if the s-type doesn't at some point relax, they won't enjoy and the potential to harm them (through tearing) is great. One major tip is that you must force the end of your penis through both anal rings. Unless your penis is really tiny and thin there is just no way to ease it in there. Trying will just make it more painful. So lots of lube, force it in, then stop. No matter how good it feels wait for the s-type to relax and start pushing back. Let them set the pace until it's obvious from the screams of bliss that you can move forward, so to speak. BTW: If the s-type is terrified of anal, (after a first bad experience or just because they are), you do need a lot of prep to get them used to being relaxed with something in their ass. I think a well lubed finger or two is fine for this, but dildos and vibes can also be fun.

ThePrincessLeya -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/3/2013 5:32:47 PM)
Just relax and take it. Lots of lube. Make sure you use the restroom or enema that day. Trust me, im literally a professional and I take the biggest of the big with much ease...I also love fisting!

Dtesmoac -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/3/2013 5:33:18 PM)
Plenty of use of toys anal over a period of time and get them to orgasim while they have toy in but...... pavlovian response .... butt = pleasure Once association made then on particular day get sub to really clench anus together as hard as they can and then with loads of lube tell sub to relax and at that point thrust in hard and hold ........... get them to respond to stilmulation none anal while holding inside. Once they are re / arroused then can start to move inside them. Key point ...... it taskes time and you need to make sure they enjoy or it will be a once only event. Used this method a couple of times and the receiver now enjoys anal but was previously vry frightened of it.

kdsub -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/3/2013 6:29:33 PM)
Buy a toy like an anal speculum. You can slowly expand it and play with it in if you like but when removed to anus will stay expanded for awhile allowing anal sex with no pain. Butch

imtempting -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 6:13:51 AM)
Lube is good but go for a good brand. Talk to the sex shop owner. You can get get anal sprays, to ease the pain. I find the best way to enter for my partner to be on her stomach at first. Take it very slow and the most painful part is the head going in. Once its in, stop for about a minute then get him to slowly thrust in and out pushing a little bit more of the penis in. He should be able to guage by your moans on if he can go harder and deeper.

angelikaJ -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 6:16:58 AM)
http://www.amazon.com/Anal-Pleasure-Health-Guide-Couples/dp/0940208377 Information and exercises galore.

kalikshama -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 8:40:46 AM)
In addition to what the others have said, try these: Trinity Silicone Butt Plug Kit One of the top selling anal trainer kits available. These high quality silicone butt plugs are designed to help you enjoy anal play. Start off small and work your way to the larger size for more pleasure. These butt plugs offer a circular handle making it easy to grab.Small: 2"" insertable length, 1"" in diameter Medium: 2.5"" insertable length, 1.25"" in diameter Large: 3.25"" insertable length, 1.5"" in diameter [image]http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/31GI5ygW-WL.jpg[/image]

johnsmith13 -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 8:51:04 AM)
as usual, alot of good information from knowlegable and caring people. thank you. the only major question i have is the use of silicon. it is a terrible thing to have in breast implants, so i would thik that it would be terible to use in body cavities. i am talking about effects from the substance itself, not the smooth feeling it gives.

kalikshama -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 9:25:18 AM)
I have chemical sensitivities. Medical-grade silicone that is solid is not a problem for me. I have a silicone menstrual cup. I was unable to use the natural gum rubber (latex) one. I am unable to use silicone lubricants. The problem with breast implants does not appear to be with solid silicone. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_implant

Galacia -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 10:09:00 AM)
It's like a Doctor's appointment for a shot - the harder and faster he shoves, the quicker the whole thing is over.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 10:15:38 AM)
Some of us enjoy anal, in fact, some of us orgasm from anal. I believe the OP wanted a bit more than hurry and get it over with, but to each his own.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 10:17:14 AM)
We use something by KY called 'sensual silk' -- its' pricey but I like it.

BambiBoi -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/4/2013 11:56:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Galacia It's like a Doctor's appointment for a shot - the harder and faster he shoves, the quicker the whole thing is over. Maybe if blood-lube is your sort of thing. Don't rush. Take your time. I know a few BDSM players who think the "foreplay" of taking time and preparing a bottom to receive is too romantic and soft. Poppycock, I say. Do it in a clever humiliating way. Don't rush. Baby, we can do it. Take the time. Do it right. We can do it, baby. Do it tonight.

Kana -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/5/2013 8:44:05 AM)
quote: Making Anal Easier to Take.. Now why in the world would I want to do that?

evesgrden -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/5/2013 11:39:22 AM)
quote: What do you recommend? A gag?

daddydominokla -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/5/2013 11:51:14 AM)
if the eat it really good then squirt some cooking oil in ur ass u will beg for it

hlen5 -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/5/2013 11:55:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddydominokla if the eat it really good then squirt some cooking oil in ur ass u will beg for it What?

sexyred1 -> RE: Making Anal Easier to Take.. (8/5/2013 12:30:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Galacia It's like a Doctor's appointment for a shot - the harder and faster he shoves, the quicker the whole thing is over. Wow. Like that sounds totally hot for the woman. NOT. [8\|] Some people like to enjoy anal, I never considered it akin to a doctor's appointment.

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