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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/14/2013 2:10:49 PM

Kana

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A have a friend, a Fem Domme, she always says,"Dominance is like being a lady-if you have to ask, they aren't."

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/14/2013 2:54:43 PM

JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: Kana
A have a friend, a Fem Domme, she always says,"Dominance is like being a lady-if you have to ask, they aren't."

~laugh~ When people ask me my standard answer is, "I'm not a dominant. Now that that's out of the way can we just interact like two human beings?" The last thing in the world I want to do is have people start labeling me "a dominant" because the next thing they do is start giving your orders.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/14/2013 7:15:16 PM

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As it was explained to me, a true Dom has a special decoder ring from the Secret Dom Society, and possesses mystical powers and anyone who looks directly into their eyes will immediately fall under their control.

Sorry for the sarcasm...best advice...buyer beware, do your homework, use common sense, and do not surrender your life to a person you just met and you know nothing about. My two cents.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/14/2013 7:33:43 PM

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How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom is REALLY a dom?

< Message edited by Musicmystery -- 8/14/2013 7:34:25 PM >

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/14/2013 8:59:30 PM

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Sunny Quote of the Day
goes to
incubusboy
for

Being kink is not a way to skip over
the ordinary human search for connection and meaning.
We all have the same journey to make.
Some of us just have
more specific enthusiasms and toys.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4513922/mpage_2/tm.htm

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 8/14/2013 9:24:52 PM >

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/15/2013 9:51:54 AM

JeffBC

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YAY!

I love it that a newcomer to the boards got the quote :)

of course, that makes incubusboy a member of the "inside clique" with all the powers and privileges that pertain (which mostly seem to consist of getting accused of being a member of the inside clique)

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/15/2013 10:29:27 PM

SerWhiteTiger

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WarMachine904

As it was explained to me, a true Dom has a special decoder ring from the Secret Dom Society, and possesses mystical powers and anyone who looks directly into their eyes will immediately fall under their control.

Sorry for the sarcasm...best advice...buyer beware, do your homework, use common sense, and do not surrender your life to a person you just met and you know nothing about. My two cents.

That was sarcasm?

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/15/2013 11:15:48 PM

WarMachine904

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No. I just didn't want anyone to be jealous of my decoder ring and my mystical powers. SMH.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 10:31:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: WarMachine904
No. I just didn't want anyone to be jealous of my decoder ring and my mystical powers. SMH.

I got the decoder ring but every time I stare at Carol sternly trying to give her "the eye" it ends up giving me a headache. I think I misplaced my mystical powers. Do you happen to know if we can re-order?

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 12:31:59 PM

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So instead of power-full, you're power-empty?

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 12:38:37 PM

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So instead of power-full, you're power-empty?

*laughs*

Honestly, the whole "power" thing makes my head hurt trying to understand it. In this context I'm a guy who's wife loves him an awful lot. That's pretty simple to understand.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 12:47:11 PM

KnightofMists

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Sunny Quote of the Day
goes to
incubusboy
for

Being kink is not a way to skip over
the ordinary human search for connection and meaning.
We all have the same journey to make.
Some of us just have
more specific enthusiasms and toys.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4513922/mpage_2/tm.htm

Love this quote

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 2:53:51 PM

WarMachine904

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: WarMachine904
No. I just didn't want anyone to be jealous of my decoder ring and my mystical powers. SMH.

I got the decoder ring but every time I stare at Carol sternly trying to give her "the eye" it ends up giving me a headache. I think I misplaced my mystical powers. Do you happen to know if we can re-order?

Punch in "A372z4" on your decoder ring and you will receive instructions for ordering replacement mystical powers. But keep in mind that Customer Service is only open M-F 8:00am - 6:00pm EST.

ROTF!

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 8:24:33 PM

Musicmystery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
So instead of power-full, you're power-empty?

*laughs*

Honestly, the whole "power" thing makes my head hurt trying to understand it. In this context I'm a guy who's wife loves him an awful lot. That's pretty simple to understand.

But you can't be love-full.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 9:03:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

quote:

How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom is REALLY a dom?

Spit takes

My tablet screen has coffee all over it.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/16/2013 10:45:50 PM

incubusboy

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I'm moved to get all these strokes (and from at least one wanton hussy!), but yeah, MusicMystery's thousand words say more than I could ever say.

I hope the clique has some sort of matching hats. I hate to get lost in parking lots.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/17/2013 9:59:39 PM

tiedservant

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Online after some chats i always like to see who i'm talking too. Via cam. If they don't want that it's already fishy for me.
For the first meeting one can always pick some public place where you feel safe enough. Have a coffee together and observe.

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RE: How will you know if a person claiming to be a dom ... - 8/19/2013 12:03:13 PM

FrankAr

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Thank you Miyani.. :) I'm just kind of scared coz what if a guy pretends to be a dom when in real life he's just a rapist or somethiing) i know this sounds stupid but like I said, I'm a newbie :)

Then why step out in that frame of mind. Stepping out of the house...you might be run over, be hit by lightning, might be eaten by a shark.

You start on the back foot in the thought process of what if. Stand up and have the strength of the strong mentality. You exchange emails, then go to the phone because by this time you would have weeded out the shitheads and morons. By the time you would be at the phone, you would get a sense if the man is hiding this life from his wife / girlfriend / de facto / and just hiding and trying to get some on the side and bloat to his mates and not take you outside for the world to see.

It is the same....if the female is real or not and is she a sub or slave.

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