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RE: Maybe some stupid questions for female dommes - 8/5/2013 9:19:13 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Not all of us female Dommes like to turn guys into "girls." I don't. As a matter of fact, it's on my hard limits list. I tried and tried to be into it when I first became a Domme, but I found that it was a total turn-off for me.

As for the "straight" sub guys that will fuck other guys, I'm not so sure they are as straight as they claim. But then I'm not a straight sub guy, so how would I really know? But I'm of the opinion that if someone wants to be "forced," then it's not really "forcing," it's more like passing the responsibility buck for something they really want to do anyway.

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RE: Maybe some stupid questions for female dommes - 8/6/2013 2:39:44 AM

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I speak for myself only.
Ive dressed maybe six guys up
THe first was for a guy I knew who wanted to "go to a fancy dress party" my sister and I got him dressed up in stockings, a pencil skirt, a padded bra and a see thru blouse, with make up but his hair was his own just spiked a bit with some gel. we drew "seams" on his legs with eyebrow pencil. My first thought was how much fun it was, the second was his legs and how good they looked, and the third was how it accentuated rather than covered his maleness(im not talking about his genitalia either). After that I used to hang out with a bunch of cds and drag queens and met so many different personalities, from those who found it humiliating, those who felt sexy with silky material and feminine, to chaps who wanted to be female, and all inbetween. Ive always been comfy around the gamut of dressers.
I started a munch in my local town with a CD, who transformed into his long held desire to live as a woman. We had more than a few CDs and TG people, both sexes come to the munches. Ive been lucky to have had good relationships with most of them, not sexual but caring friendships
Two of my ex boyfriends tried it at least twice some as a joke, or to please me. I enjoy it quite a bit, with my pet, its a common theme, over the years, its gone from humiliation a secret pleasure, between us, wearing articles of clothing to full dress, I love to see "his"maleness covered in silk, lace, spandex, leather and rubber. intimately, mentally he yes does it for me.

As for women...nope, I love women, I love how they look, but I have a mental block about the pussy...it does ZERO for me ...its a hard limit, I detach, almost clinically when confronted with one...I have played with women, but the pussy is a no go area...
personal preference...probably from my years of nursing, I can look at piercings, tatts from friends, etc, but no desire to touch one in any way... maybe that will change...Im open to evolving.
Anyway thats my personal 2 cents:)

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RE: Maybe some stupid questions for female dommes - 8/6/2013 4:17:01 PM

HarryVanWinkle

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Have you considered asking this question to all the dommes who aren't female? All the male dommes could take serious offence.

Have you considered how odd it sounds when the only time you use a word that usually refers to women other than "female" you're actually talking about males?

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RE: Maybe some stupid questions for female dommes - 8/6/2013 10:18:10 PM

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I enjoy force feminising male subs because of the humiliation aspect of it. Think about it. In most Western cultures, one of the worst insults you can give a man is to compare him to a woman. Dressing up an otherwise straight, clean-cut, heteronormative sort of fellow in frilly doll clothes or a maid's outfit definitely changes his perspective. In my experience, it makes the male subs more docile, obedience and submissive. It's also a reward in some cases for subs who desire to have permission to break out of the macho role and explore their feminine side. As for sex, no. I'm straight. I wouldn't sleep with a submissive I played with in any case, though. It's a dream a few have, perhaps, but never a reality I'd permit.

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RE: Maybe some stupid questions for female dommes - 8/7/2013 8:28:41 AM

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The world is a confusing place to be in.

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