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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 9:08:17 AM

DigitBox

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I have a question, I know of a sub that likes anal play with all kinds of things including vegtables persay. he is into Me but perferrs that to anything else .he say he is bi curious, but actually being with a man by himelf is gross but wants to be made to by a Mistress. hmmmmm Im really confused is he gay?

Anal stimulation probably just feels good to him. If he's bi curious that may add another level to it.

Being bi means being attracted to both sexes at least a little.

I know I'm bi because I'm attracted to mostly guys but everyonce in a while I meet a woman who is attractive to me.

I don't associate anal sex with sexual orientation.

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 9:11:05 AM

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No,wanting to have sex with men would make him gay,

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 10:07:58 AM

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i have to quote George Carlin:

"gay? straight? dont be so suburban..."

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 10:27:59 AM

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My girl likes cheese, Does that make her a mouse?

I once knew a male who would not have anal sex with a woman, because it was anal sex and only gay men do that. Many men go through a period where they wonder if they might be gay because they enjoy some form of anal stimulation. What he needs from you is reasurrance that it doesn't matter. What concerns me is that you are here asking the question rather than helping him not worry over it. If you have any doubts in your mind whether it matters or not then you certainly should not engage in that "play" with him.

In our house we can be rather out there on some things. I have been asked by my little one, "Am I sick is there something wrong with me?" I only have one answer for her on any of these thoughts , "She is mine", and that is the only thing that matters.

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 4:16:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: mistresszariah1

I have a question, I know of a sub that likes anal play with all kinds of things including vegtables persay. he is into Me but perferrs that to anything else .he say he is bi curious, but actually being with a man by himelf is gross but wants to be made to by a Mistress. hmmmmm Im really confused is he gay?

Because I don’t like being fucked does that mean I am not gay? Boohoo all these years I have been living a lie ;-)

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 7:55:19 PM

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i am most definitely not gay and have loved anal play for as long as i can remember. nothing like Mistress taking me with her strap on. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm yummy.

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 8:01:01 PM

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thnak you for the reply, but he i very much into anal and not o much into actual pemetration but loves to orally ervice? Im really confused

He sounds to Me like he is a slave, not to make generalizations. but many slaves cannot conceive of penetration with the Mistress---was he trained before he came to you?

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 8:06:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: mistresszariah1

I have a question, I know of a sub that likes anal play with all kinds of things including vegtables persay. he is into Me but perferrs that to anything else .he say he is bi curious, but actually being with a man by himelf is gross but wants to be made to by a Mistress. hmmmmm Im really confused is he gay?

Hmmm, well if he likes women, and he fantasizes about a domme making him take a man. Well, that would make him bi-curious. At that point he'll either jump off the meat train a go all straight, or really like it(maybe go all gay), or like a little of both(more than likely) in which case I'd say he'd be bi at that point.

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RE: does a sub wanting a strap on make him gay? - 6/29/2006 9:12:49 PM

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