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My ex - 8/5/2013 1:25:46 PM   
Missdressed


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Status: offline 		is a fucking bastarding cunting wankbadger fucknugget arsebiscuit cunt knobjockey dicksplash cunt arsewipe.


And breathe.
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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 1:29:07 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		Were we married to the same man??

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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 1:29:48 PM   
Missdressed


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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 3:26:12 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Care to tell us how you really feel?

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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 5:16:36 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missdressed

is a fucking bastarding cunting wankbadger fucknugget arsebiscuit cunt knobjockey dicksplash cunt arsewipe.


And breathe.


I don't quite know how to respond to that other than to say....I really feel you need to learn how to express your true thoughts.

I feel you're holding back.

Cut loose chickee.....tell us how you really feel. I think there's a larger story.....

< Message edited by LookieNoNookie -- 8/5/2013 5:17:52 PM >

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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 10:22:40 PM   
Missdressed


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Status: offline 		When we married he had a degree. I didn't. While we had young children I supported him to do a Masters. I started a degree once when we were married - part time and he was outwardly supportive but couldn't get home one night a week to let me do it. He expected me to leave to go to the degree and leave a 4 and 6 year old in the house unattended (pre-mobile/cell phones - I had no idea where he was)

Another thing he used to do was he would decide what I needed to be doing he wouldn't tell me and then he would announce that I had failed to reach this standard that he had set.

So..... Afte we split I went to Uni. I did a degree. And I've been accepted to do a Masters. He doesn't know that I have a job ready to start on 2nd sept.

Or that I am freelancing.

Was at his yesterday. He asked me "what need have you to be doing a Masters? Haven't you done enough"

And I explained that I wanted to do it and that kt would be useful for my career plans blah blah

ANd he said

I had it in my head that you would have got off your backside and got yourself a job by now"

And when pulled up on it said that I was taking it all the wrong way. He was being supportive and meant that to be congratulating me on all I have achieved.

I am apparently too sensitive. And take things all the wrong way. Typical of me.

Arse.

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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 11:39:32 PM   
FrostedFlake


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Status: offline 		I'm glad you got that out before it exploded.

But you should practice before you try to swear that much in a go. At Least, I've always done better with a little practice.

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RE: My ex - 8/5/2013 11:43:58 PM   
Missdressed


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Status: offline 		If it wasn't for the girls, I'd move far far away and never have to see him.

I think I am trying too hard to keep it nice between me and him for the sake of the kids.

Bah.

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 5:27:19 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		What would he say about you?

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 5:50:14 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Having an ex myself, I would never put myself in a position of having to listen to him talk about anything that is important to me.
Whenever we had to talk about the kids, I didn't give him any ammunition to use against me.
Keep the discussion on the kids, all the kids, and nothing but the kids.

and yes, ex-husbands are the WORST!!!!

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 7:15:27 AM   
Missdressed


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Status: offline 		I think I know exactly what he'd say about me, pahunkboy, because he fricking said it to me yesterday.

Oh, that along with I'm going to burn in hell. He made sure he told the kids that.

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 7:20:59 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		I am sorry if I made this worse.


Hugs! I hope things improve for you.

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 7:29:35 AM   
TallullahHk


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Status: offline 		Knowing the paperwork my lawyer sent to my ex a few weeks ago I can imagine he let out similar string of words about me. Oh well, this girl is taking care of herself now and making decisions that are best for ME.

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 8:10:32 AM   
NuevaVida


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Having an ex myself, I would never put myself in a position of having to listen to him talk about anything that is important to me.
Whenever we had to talk about the kids, I didn't give him any ammunition to use against me.
Keep the discussion on the kids, all the kids, and nothing but the kids.

and yes, ex-husbands are the WORST!!!!

This.

We don't have kids but the divorce took 3 years, and 5 years later I am still dealing with legal issues with him.

He's on a need to know basis and there is very little he needs to know about me. Remember, less is more. He doesn't need to know anything about your personal life now. You don't need to explain to him what you do and why. This will save yourself a lot of frustrating verbal entanglements, and also give you the upper hand in your dealings with him. Exes get pretty squirmy when you stop letting them in.

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RE: My ex - 8/6/2013 8:15:21 AM   
Missdressed


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Status: offline 		You're all grand :) I'm just venting. I don't discuss anything with him - but the kids do.

I did let rip a bit at The Teenager last night as to WHY she thought it appropriate to discuss my business with him.

Tis all Poo bum fart bollocks.

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