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I have a collarmemail from a poster who says she is 15 ... - 8/5/2013 6:54:27 PM

dollenburg

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There is a collarme profile from an 18 year old California female bisexual switch who wrote to me (verbatim):

"Would u want to be my Master? I'm only 15 and in need of training."

I have reported this more than a week ago to videoadminchi. ideoAdminChi told me to contact videoAdminAlpha but there has been zero response from VideoAdminAlpha, even after multiple messages.

Obviously they don't care - which not only says a lot about Collarme, but, which really bothers me that they will let this stand. I am forced to take this drastic action of posting this.

I have sent MULTIPLE messages and included a screenshot of the collarme mail to them. There is no doubt about what I say.

If anyone wants the screenshot, just CM mail me and I will send it to you. Do it fast as I don't expect CM to do anything unless I threaten something drastic.

I have also contacted collarme support and have reported the profile. I don't know if I should call my local police or those near Los Angeles where the profile originates.

If you have advice for me, please send it now.
Thanks.

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RE: I have a collarmemail from a poster who says she is... - 8/5/2013 6:56:44 PM

littlewonder

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You do realize this person is just trying to get a rise out of ya, right? And that's most likely why nothing has been done. It's already been checked into most likely.

Why not just put the person on ignore and go about your life?

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RE: I have a collarmemail from a poster who says she is... - 8/5/2013 7:17:57 PM

VideoAdminAlpha

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The user had not visited since 7/12 and although action had been taken to block their mail, it was not apparent what the action was. I was remiss in not letting the OP know what action had been taken. So that it is obvious what action had been taken, I have deleted the account, whereas before they would think they had a live account should they sign on, since the verbiage on the profile that was viewable did not state being a minor. I was remiss in not answering but action had been taken. Hopefully, now that the account has been deleted, they will not attempt to start a new one.

On the note of the father daughter account earlier today, I deleted that account based on the OP and further investigation. For reports in the future, please do mail me and support dont just click report on accounts like these 2. My apologies for not telling the OP here that action, in fact, had been taken.

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RE: I have a collarmemail from a poster who says she is... - 8/5/2013 7:21:41 PM

dollenburg

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I have mail from that user on from as recently as 7/24/13 at 11:20 PM and I checked the account TODAY and it was still active.
I _do_ see that (finally) it was deleted, so it had to have been deleted just today.
Whew!

I don't know if the poster was just trying to spoof me or not but what worries me muuuuuuch more is what happened after I had reported it.
There was NO DOUBT what the message said.

Whether or not it was true is beyond my capabilities. But the message said what it said, and the poster responded as I kept her on the hook after immediately informing all that I could.

In hindsight, there needs to be a BETTER way of reporting this. Maybe there should be an UNDERAGE button or something.

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RE: I have a collarmemail from a poster who says she is... - 8/5/2013 7:28:15 PM

dollenburg

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha
Hopefully, now that the account has been deleted, they will not attempt to start a new one.

I *do* symphathize with CM that there is nothing you can do to stop this.
In fact, I guess, if the 15-year old really wants to, they will learn not to mention their age, and then there's nothing we can do about this type of thing.
So, in a way, we've taught her how to circumvent the system.
But we have to do what we have to do.
I am sorry I had to create this thread, I did hold off for a while but I didn't want the wrong hands to hurt anyone.

In the end, the poster, if she is determined, might very well create a new profile, but, if that was her real picture, then at least we know what she looks like.
I sincerely hope we do NOT have 15 year old kids on this forum!

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RE: I have a collarmemail from a poster who says she is... - 8/5/2013 8:18:21 PM

VideoAdminAlpha

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I will also add before I lock this thread that my actions were not because the OP actually emailed manyregistered regular members of this forum with the this question and copy of the mail, and asked them what they would do.

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