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crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 4:22:52 AM

becky

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has any sissy slaves ever been sent to a ladies hair dresser with a note saying what she wants done by her mistress
I am looking for ways or ideas on how to write a note to give to my sissy crossdresser slave and send to a local hair dresser
hope someone can help

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 4:33:57 AM

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Larger cities even in the Midwest will have CD friendly hair dressers and beauty salons. To find out where these are, Google your area for CD groups. Most large cities will have a support group, never a bad idea for a CD.

The group should have a website with resource information, or you can email the contact person.

Instead of writing a note, I suggest you contact the hair dresser directly with your instructions, then command your sissy to make an appt and do as instructed.

Writing a note to a random hair dresser means you are willing to involve random strangers in your kink, a 'no no' for some.

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 4:41:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
Larger cities even in the Midwest will have CD friendly hair dressers and beauty salons. To find out where these are, Google your area for CD groups. Most large cities will have a support group, never a bad idea for a CD.

The group should have a website with resource information, or you can email the contact person.

Instead of writing a note, I suggest you contact the hair dresser directly with your instructions, then command your sissy to make an appt and do as instructed.

Writing a note to a random hair dresser means you are willing to involve random strangers in your kink, a 'no no' for some.

And worse yet, that salon operator might not be willing to involve other patrons. So, you might have to have an appointment out-of-hours (if at all.)

Check the gay newspaper for ads for hair-cutting. Most men that are hair-cutters are ALSO drag queens. Ask for a "hair bender" which is ancient gay code for exactly what you're looking for.

And that makes me think.... ask YOUR salon operator if they know of a good "hair bender."

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 5:05:31 AM

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Nice tip, Lance.

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 8:40:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: becky

has any sissy slaves ever been sent to a ladies hair dresser with a note saying what she wants done by her mistress
I am looking for ways or ideas on how to write a note to give to my sissy crossdresser slave and send to a local hair dresser
hope someone can help

Involving a stranger in your kink without their consent is not cool. IMO, it's beyond tacky.

I think Lance's suggestion is fantastic.

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 11:36:38 AM

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Am I the only one who smells wank fodder and not a Domme in the OP?

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 11:38:02 AM

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I absolutely got that.

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 2:05:25 PM

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Find a gay stylist. Then you won't be in the position of being told to leave because the stylist isn't interested in playing your games.

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 4:32:53 PM

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Am I the only one who smells wank fodder and not a Domme in the OP?

Nope.

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 4:35:20 PM

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Find a gay stylist. Then you won't be in the position of being told to leave because the stylist isn't interested in playing your games.

You're kidding, right? When did you go to work for "Stereotypes R US"?

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RE: crossdressing hair appointment - 8/6/2013 8:48:39 PM

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While the original post is wank fodder, I would guarantee that, in case someone actually reads this wondering, others had great answers, there are lists online of CD friendly resources, or if not, the phone is a wonderful thing, call up and tell the person the situation and see what they say. I had my first makeover/makeup lessons that way years ago, and the woman in question still cuts my and my family's hair 15 years later:). I would recommend a small shop rather than a busy salon. A salon run by a gay guy may be more sympathetic, but don't count on it, especially the ones that are higher end may want less to do with a CD or Sissy then a 'regular' shop would, don't count on a gay guy necessarily being more sympathetic, and no, most gay hairstylists , least the ones I know, are not into doing drag (some do, of course, but that is a stereotype that if it was ever true, prob died with the Christopher street clone look).

Put it this way, a lot of beauty salons and such aren't going to turn away a paying customer, not if they are smart, and the worse they can see is 'no thank you'. They may want to take the person as last client of the day or something, not wanting to bother other customers, but I suspect it won't be that hard.

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