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TigressLily -> RE: Race play? (9/26/2013 9:49:02 AM)
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Lookie, you are a trip! [sm=dancer.gif]
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
Who fucking knows what your shit is?
But in all seriousness Peter, I would consider this a personal preference. Some men are only turned on by women of one particular race, like those who have a so-called Asian Female Fetish. Yours might be considered by some to be an anti-Asian Fetish, if being with an Asian woman is an absolute turn-off for you. There are those who prefer solely one race, whether it's their own or not. It could be they prefer blacks or Latinos. I personally prefer Caucasian males. I've been attracted to a Hispanic man once, and I do think Spaniard Antonio Banderas is hot (although others might see him as more European, hence Caucasian).
I will say this, though. It's depersonalizing to be treated as a fetish object. Or worse, a sex object to fool around with but not good enough to take home to meet your mother and the rest of your family of origin. If you aren't willing to hitch your wagon (carriage would be my preference) to someone, then you have no business getting involved with that person at the onset, IMFHO. That's just me. A guy can take his Asian fetish and shove it as far as I'm concerned. This has always been a touchy subject with me because I'm half Asian. There was a time in my life when this became a Catch-22 situation. I've never liked that "Other" racial category (sometimes now there is a "Mixed" category)--Other, as in an unknown non-Earthling alien species? On top of that, on my father's side we are 1/8-1/16 Native American Indian. I also grew up in Hawaii for part of my childhood, so does that make me a Hawaiian? No, I cannot claim to be a native Pacific Islander.
Unless you are seeking to be humiliated for being Asian with these Mistresses, including having them make derogatory racial remarks directed at you, it wouldn't be Race Play. I recently passed over a houseboy-with-benefits arrangement with a guy around my same [middle]age who runs his own businesses, but makes himself available once or twice a week. One thing that really turned me off about him was that he kept referring to himself as a 'White Boy Slave,' as in here's your own personal white boy at your disposal. As long as I wasn't fully white, and was height-weight proportionate, that's all he cared about in the Mistress he served. Way too impersonal, and I expect better than that.
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