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Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 12:30:19 PM

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am wondering if anyone has experience with or knows of Straight Male Masters having male slaves?

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 12:30:40 PM

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Yep.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 12:36:28 PM

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Service only. No sex though.
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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 1:13:42 PM

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am wondering if anyone has experience with or knows of Straight Male Masters having male slaves?

Of course. Submission isn't necessarily about sex.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 1:14:12 PM

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No sex though.

otherwise they wouldn't be straight....

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 1:17:27 PM

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I've been sadistic to males before.

I've also topped couples where the male just had to watch.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 1:40:16 PM

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You used the phrasing "master and slave" which changes my answer. I've topped couples and topped using a male as one of the toys in my toolbox, but never kept a male. The main reason is I only really keep things I want to cuddle with.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 3:17:48 PM

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I've known heterosexual men with gay and lesbian slaves. I've known gay men with heterosexual slaves of both sexes. I've known heterosexual women with gay and lesbian slaves. I've known lesbian women with heterosexual slaves of both sexes.

Why do you want to know?

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 3:38:13 PM

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well i'm a gay male slave, though think of slave or submissive as more of my gender, preferring to serve Straight Dom Male Masters but is hard to find, wondering if it was totally impossible.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 3:59:56 PM

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Let's take away the labels for a moment. What is it you enjoy about serving a straight male rather than any other particular group? Is it that sex is rarely requested? Plenty of straight female doms out there that are perfectly clear about not wanting sex in their profiles. Reminds me of "I'm not going to sleep with you! I will never sleep with you, never, ever! Not ever!"

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 4:03:57 PM

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yes sex is not the important part, service is, but do like male dominance....or couples with a male dominant figure involved.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 4:14:20 PM

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But why? There's plenty of good answers.

Could be that he is more likely to be physically more powerful/larger. Maybe its the smell of a man. Maybe its the fact that he does not desire you sexually so the subjugation is more specific. Maybe its that you want to desire your top in a way he does not desire you in return.

Thought experiment: You can have play partner for the night. Each alike in every respect, though one is bi/gay the other is straight. WHY do you choose the one you chose? I don't really care WHICH one... but WHY that one instead of the other?

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 4:18:29 PM

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i think the last thing you said..the subjugation is clearer and stronger and the one-way desire is more demeaning, an extra humiliation, which this slave thrives on

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/6/2013 4:41:05 PM

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well i'm a gay male slave, though think of slave or submissive as more of my gender, preferring to serve Straight Dom Male Masters but is hard to find, wondering if it was totally impossible.

Nothing is totally impossible. But, I think it's unlikely that you'll find that here. My recommendation is to join your local BDSM community and go to events. NYC has one of the largest, most active communities in the country.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/7/2013 5:53:58 AM

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Same thing for women.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/7/2013 8:36:26 AM

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One of the problems here is that most dominants don't view the sub as someone they want to humiliate 24/7. So if that's what you want out of it, when he might want a buddy to watch the game with when he doesn't want you to mow the grass or wash the dishes, there's going to be a huge disconnect.

Now negotiating for this during s & m is one thing, it's another to be expected to view someone as less the rest of the time. Because why would anyone want to spend a lot of time with someone they don't see as worth spending time with?

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/7/2013 8:58:19 AM

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well i'm pretty flexible about everything, was just trying to answer the question about my motivations...i certainly enjoy adapting to the personality and moods of a dominant person...

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/7/2013 9:16:51 AM

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Nothing is totally impossible. But, I think it's unlikely that you'll find that here. My recommendation is to join your local BDSM community and go to events. NYC has one of the largest, most active communities in the country.

Didn't we have some Dom a few months back posting this exact thing from the Dom side? Oh no... he wanted sex too and we all thought there might be some ... uh ... confusion going on in his head.

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/7/2013 10:17:57 AM

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well i definitely have confusion going on in my head, lol....just throwing myself at the mercy of the court here..

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RE: Straight Male Masters with male slaves? - 8/7/2013 12:09:03 PM

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well i'm a gay male slave, though think of slave or submissive as more of my gender, preferring to serve Straight Dom Male Masters but is hard to find, wondering if it was totally impossible.

This topic has come up quite a few times over on Fetlife. So I summarize how the conversation usually goes.

1) There are definitely male Doms (both gay and straight) who enjoy dominating other males.

2) Many (most?) straight male Doms don't do it because they say it feels "gay" to them. But as stated above, some definitely will do it.

3) If it is service that you desire, most female Dommes would love to have a service sub who never asks them for sex. I know that you said that you prefer the humiliation of serving a straight male, but it's something to think about. You get the service that you desire, and she gets a faithful (non-sexual) servant. That sounds like a win-win solution to me.

I haven't read your profile, but I think someone else said that you live in NYC. If so, you should have no problem finding whatever you desire. The only problem is that you probably have to get off of the computer and actually go to a real-life event. If you can't find what you're seeking in NYC, then you really aren't trying very hard.

BTW, if you don't have any success, send me a PM. I know a straight black male Dom in NYC who definitely tops other males. I don't know if race is an issue for you, but he does do what you seek.

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