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CertainlyDom -> What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:04:33 AM)

Ephesians
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.
24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,
26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.[a]
28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church,
30 because we are members of his body.
31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.


1st Timothy
11 Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness.
12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve;
14 and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.




JustAMas -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:07:34 AM)

Jesus was the original masochist.




ARIES83 -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:20:38 AM)

I would have thought a better place to post this would have been the religion section...




JeffBC -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:22:11 AM)

That is no sort of kink at all. That is human slavery and it is detestable. The moment you start mandating this stuff at the societal level it turns pure evil instantly.




myotherself -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:29:36 AM)

I can't see it as a kink.

As an atheist I just think it's a bit of biblical nonsense with no more relevance to real life than anything John Norman wrote.




FelineRanger -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:36:44 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ARIES83

I would have thought a better place to post this would have been the religion section...



Seconded. Can we put it to a vote?




OsideGirl -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:41:47 AM)

There are Christian D/s - Taken in Hand groups that use Bible quotes like those as the purpose for their relationships.

(they also believe that Female Dominant / male submissive relationships are abhorrent)




Missokyst -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:48:53 AM)

Similar to taken in hand.
...and also what I endured in my early marriage. It presupposes the premise that women are incapable of having the reasoning to think for themselves. In reality it pushes them to believe they cannot make a move until given permission. For me, it took my art, my creativity, my poetry and writing, and replaced them with food because that is the only area in which I was allowed to shine, without it being claimed by my husband.

What I don't like about it is that too many men involved in religious based households is that they pay great attention to the "trangressions of the wife" and seem to ignore the

quote:

In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church,
30 because we are members of his body.
31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”


And often ignore teh 7th commandment
7. Thou shalt not commit adultery.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 8:54:06 AM)

It's not kink, it's religious propaganda.




Lucylastic -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 9:06:28 AM)

YKINMK but have at it, you will find someone to enjoy it Im sure

but personally
HARD LIMIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RED, ARDVAARK, not only no but F no
Id rather have have my kidneys taken out thru my ears




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 10:20:13 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JustAMas

Jesus was the original masochist.


You know why Jesus died on the cross? He refused to use his safeword.

Yeah, I know, I know, it's old. But it's not nearly as old as I am.




Winterapple -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 10:35:27 AM)

It's Iron and Bronze Age patriarchy only kinky to some
in retrospect.

The verses from Timothy ( found in the New Testament)
were tacked on after Paul to soothe the anxieties of
early church fathers. Women had a vital role in the
development of Christianity. They were active leaders
in the spread of Christianity. The teachings they were
responding to said that before God there was no male
or female, the sexes were equal in the sight of God.
They were also responding to the social conscience that
Christianity promoted. Taking care of the poor and sick,
the importance of community and looking after one another

The verses about woman not instructing man were put there
to keep women out of leadership positions in the organized
church. They are evoked to keep women from being allowed
to be priests in the Catholic Church and from being ministers
in some Protestant sects(as well as forbidden from teaching
Sunday school to males who have reached puberty) .





CertainlyDom -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 12:13:35 PM)

First, I didn't post this as a religious question so I don't agree that it belongs in religion. I posted it because it comes from a book that many people say they live by and don't question any part and because it calls for submission, although a sexist submission. I'm personally not religious and therefore don't give any of these writings any special weight. In fact, the Timothy section is offensive in my opinion.

In particular, I wanted to see responses from people in Dom/sub or TPE/IE relationships. It's interesting how offended some were and it would be interesting to know more about why that is true. I think some see some of this as slavery because they don't see the huge demands this puts on the husband. To me it seems a little like a special type of Dom/sub. Explain how that thinking is wrong and remember, this is not religious at all. Don't give me any God demands, just use logic. Make if a fun discussion.




evesgrden -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 12:30:23 PM)

Your post had nothing to do with consent and everything to do with mandated oppression. So how is that kink or d/s? I'm not offended I just simply don't see consent being part of what you posted, ergo I think it belongs in the religion section too.

You say wanted a fun discussion -- about what? I don't see a question nor a stance to be challenged so what specifically did you think was noteworthy?




DarkSteven -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 12:38:38 PM)

It's sometimes called Christian Domestic Discipline as well.




OsideGirl -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 12:42:27 PM)

I view it pretty much the same as Gorean. D/s dynamics based on a work of fiction.




SeekingTrinity -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 12:53:59 PM)

~FRing it~

You asked what kind of kink this was, if it was a kink...and then all your OP was entailed bible verses. And this is not religious, OP?

Meh, I don't really find religious discussion "fun." Im not about to go making light of someone's belief system for shits and giggles. It can be considered offensive to those who believe this way...and Im not about to disrespect someone by making fun of them because of it.

I get that you were trying to be all controversial and provocative. You shouldn't get all bent out of shape when people elect not to follow along.






CertainlyDom -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 1:07:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I view it pretty much the same as Gorean. D/s dynamics based on a work of fiction.

The most interesting post yet.

I guess most people can't forget the fact that the original post came from the Bible. It me it doesn't matter. To me, many of the ideas I see here are superior. And I was not trying to be controversial at all. Just learning, which I did. Thanks.




JeffBC -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 1:47:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CertainlyDom
I think some see some of this as slavery because they don't see the huge demands this puts on the husband.

I think it depends. I took the writing in context which means I treated it as a social mandate. In that sense it is pure evil (and right from the lips of God no less).

Taken out of context and applied at the individual level then it's what Carol and I do san's religious handwaving.

By the way, no amount of burden on the part of the master changes whether or not it is slavery. Consent is what does that.




OsideGirl -> RE: What kind of kink is this, if it is kink? (8/9/2013 1:47:27 PM)

So, basically, you just expected everyone to ignore the source that produced what you quoted.




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