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Puppy play - 8/11/2013 10:23:02 PM

MarceyWishes

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I hope I haven't put this in the wrong area, sorry if I have! :-D

Anyway, I've just had a brief and broad definition done of puppy play from a Dom friend. I was wondering if anyone cared to explain it to me in their own terms.

Thanks in advance!

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 12:26:47 AM

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Puppy play, like everything else in this lifestyle, is pretty much up to those involved. There are no set rules, except those you make up yourselves. That being said, puppy play usually involves one person pretty much acting like a pet. How involved the role-play gets, how far the illusion is carried, that is the question. From wearing a tail and woofing sexily as you crawl on the floor, to fetching rubber bones out in the back yard and peeing leg up next to that 50 year old oak. Pet play can fall anywhere within, or even outside those examples

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 2:38:20 AM

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I reaallly am wanting to do this in a hardcore fashion!! I just WISH I could find someone who would take me in and take this serious like I do. I know a submissive or slave can't ask and has no rights to ask, but I REALLLLLLY want to live this way with ABSOLUTELY NO vanilla life! Sad....maybe, freaky......maybe
.but I won't apologize because it's how I feel.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 2:49:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sissydogboi

I reaallly am wanting to do this in a hardcore fashion!! I just WISH I could find someone who would take me in and take this serious like I do. I know a submissive or slave can't ask and has no rights to ask, but I REALLLLLLY want to live this way with ABSOLUTELY NO vanilla life! Sad....maybe, freaky......maybe
.but I won't apologize because it's how I feel.

Dude. Step away from the porn.

Submissives and yes, even slaves, have every right to have needs, desires and standards. They can, and absolutely should ask for what they want and not settle for a relationship that doesn't make them fulfilled. Even if a submissive is in a relationship where they have to get permission to speak, if that dynamic doesn't fit their needs they can and should walk away.

Now that said, absolutely no vanilla life? Live as a pet all the time? This is very unrealistic. You need to find someone who is willing to keep you financially, to do all the housework and errands, to feed you, to entertain you and to stay with you at all times (since you presumably won't be able to be left alone safely). This person would have to give up the option of having a partner who contributes, who has adult conversations, who is willing to change things up in the bedroom, who will go and see and movie and who can join in the family celebrations at Christmas - you won't be doing those things, and who would get into a relationship with someone that devoted all of their time and energy into keeping you?

Pet play is a great fantasy. You could incorporate little bits into your every day life. You could have awesome weekend-long play sessions. But no vanilla life? That would make you a dead weight around your partner's neck. This is why you can't find anyone to take it as seriously as you. No matter how much fun kinky time people share, normal boring every day life will still make up the majority of the day.

Freaky? Not really. Should you apologise? Absolutely not. But you also shouldn't be surprised that no one wants to take on this huge amount of work and responsibility and all they get in return is to pet play in the exact way you have planned.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 3:17:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

quote:

ORIGINAL: sissydogboi
I reaallly am wanting to do this in a hardcore fashion!! I just WISH I could find someone who would take me in and take this serious like I do. I know a submissive or slave can't ask and has no rights to ask, but I REALLLLLLY want to live this way with ABSOLUTELY NO vanilla life! Sad....maybe, freaky......maybe
.but I won't apologize because it's how I feel.

Dude. Step away from the porn.

Submissives and yes, even slaves, have every right to have needs, desires and standards. They can, and absolutely should ask for what they want and not settle for a relationship that doesn't make them fulfilled. Even if a submissive is in a relationship where they have to get permission to speak, if that dynamic doesn't fit their needs they can and should walk away.

Now that said, absolutely no vanilla life? Live as a pet all the time? This is very unrealistic. You need to find someone who is willing to keep you financially, to do all the housework and errands, to feed you, to entertain you and to stay with you at all times (since you presumably won't be able to be left alone safely). This person would have to give up the option of having a partner who contributes, who has adult conversations, who is willing to change things up in the bedroom, who will go and see and movie and who can join in the family celebrations at Christmas - you won't be doing those things, and who would get into a relationship with someone that devoted all of their time and energy into keeping you?

Pet play is a great fantasy. You could incorporate little bits into your every day life. You could have awesome weekend-long play sessions. But no vanilla life? That would make you a dead weight around your partner's neck. This is why you can't find anyone to take it as seriously as you. No matter how much fun kinky time people share, normal boring every day life will still make up the majority of the day.

Freaky? Not really. Should you apologise? Absolutely not. But you also shouldn't be surprised that no one wants to take on this huge amount of work and responsibility and all they get in return is to pet play in the exact way you have planned.

Spot on!!

Very well put.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 6:35:30 AM

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Puppy play is a temporary vacation from the farce that is human condition. It simplifies things. You leave behind your human persona, with all of its plans and concerns and fears and worries, and you embrace the simplicity of being a puppy, where nothing matters except for playing with your owner and making them happy. You live in the moment, fetching and running on all fours and drinking from a bowl and being petted and walked on the leash - or spanked with a newspaper. You give up human speech with all of its double-talk and silly metaphors, and instead express yourself through barking, whimpering and using your paws to let your owner know what you want.

It's not for everyone, but those of us who truly enjoy it wouldn't trade it for anything else.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 6:45:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WebWanderer

Puppy play is a temporary vacation from the farce that is human condition. It simplifies things. You leave behind your human persona, with all of its plans and concerns and fears and worries, and you embrace the simplicity of being a puppy, where nothing matters except for playing with your owner and making them happy. You live in the moment, fetching and running on all fours and drinking from a bowl and being petted and walked on the leash - or spanked with a newspaper. You give up human speech with all of its double-talk and silly metaphors, and instead express yourself through barking, whimpering and using your paws to let your owner know what you want.

It's not for everyone, but those of us who truly enjoy it wouldn't trade it for anything else.

I quite agree.
But what Athena was pointing out (and you confirmed in your very first sentence), is that it's fine as a diversion - but not 24/7/365 with no vanilla at all as the OP seems to want to practice it.
It's just unrealistic and quite frankly, completely idiotic.
And that is why OP is having extreme difficulty in finding someone.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 6:58:22 AM

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In the OP's defense, she was just asking for more info on puppy play. It was the third poster who said:

quote:

I REALLLLLLY want to live this way with ABSOLUTELY NO vanilla life!

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 7:09:55 AM

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sissydogboi - Did you perchance watch The Pet and think that is the way puppy play is in reality? It's not. Great fantasy to become a puppy and leave human worries behind for the rest of your life but that's not a likely reality here on Earth. As WebWanderer said, it is a temporary vacation. I will reiterate what Athena said about submissives and slaves having the right to question and walk away if need be.

freedomdwarf1 - The OP and sissydogboi, unless I've missed something, are seperate people. Just saying.

MarceyWishes - The reason your friend likely gave you a broad definition is because just like anything else, it depends on the people involved in the pet play on what all is included. Some when they are a pet still eat and use the bathroom like people but still purr or bark or growl or whimper to communicate. Some when they are a pet do exactly what a real pet would do. They whine, whimper, bark, growl, meow, purr or make whatever noises their animal does, they go to the bathroom outside (or perhaps in a litter box), they eat from pet dishes, etc.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 7:14:25 AM

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Good catch!! My bad.
But that was also the post that Athena answered. lol.

But even so, we see waay too many on here that are asking about extreme fantasies that are Ok in small doses but not for 24/7.
Puppy play is quite common in that respect.
Same for those that want complete mummification or to live permanently in a cage.
It just isn't practical and for most people on the dominant side they aren't getting any return for their hard work.
So the advice still stands.
Unless both sides bring something positive to the table, it ain't likely to happen or last very long.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 8:17:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MarceyWishes

Anyway, I've just had a brief and broad definition done of puppy play from a Dom friend. I was wondering if anyone cared to explain it to me in their own terms.

Puppy play is a opportunity to explore human nature, and to express human relationships, by letting go of conventional human habits.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 8:24:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
Submissives and yes, even slaves, have every right to have needs, desires and standards.

I vote for reality here. Who cares if they have a "right" to those things. They will have those things. Us doms can strut around all we want but in the end if you start with human clay then you're gonna end up with a human something in the end. And human somethings have "needs, desires and standards".

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 8:38:29 AM

MarceyWishes

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Wow such a hubbub from my question.

Either way, I thank ya'll who put it to terms. (somewhat) My OCD side of me always demands a set-in-stone diction of certain words that I've never heard of!

But that wars with the fact that nothing in this lifestyle is indeed, set-in-stone.

I was merely curios.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/12/2013 5:47:28 PM

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puppy play: collars, leashes, dog bones, service, devotion, feeding on the floor

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RE: Puppy play - 8/13/2013 1:43:34 PM

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Puppy play:

A> Getting down on the floor with the dog and growling and wrestling with the dog.

B> Putting collar and leash on the submissive and serving their dinner in the dog bowl.... etc.

C> Dressing in a fur suit and going yiffing and a furry convention.

Excuse me, the dog is insisting on some playtime and keeps pawing gently at my wrist while I'm typing.

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RE: Puppy play - 8/13/2013 3:10:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Anatolium

puppy play: collars, leashes, dog bones, service, devotion, feeding on the floor

continuing ... playing fetch, learning tricks, obedience to hand as well as verbal signals ie. "heel", pet grooming, "show dog" positions, doggie pillow/bed, "no puppies allowed on the couch" type rules ... (and in my experience puppies often like to lick lol)

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RE: Puppy play - 8/13/2013 3:51:06 PM

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And continuing further.....some of us have outfits in rubber and leather for such play :)

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RE: Puppy play - 8/13/2013 3:59:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Submissives and yes, even slaves, have every right to have needs, desires and standards. They can, and absolutely should ask for what they want and not settle for a relationship that doesn't make them fulfilled. Even if a submis.sive is in a relationship where they have to get permission to speak, if that dynamic doesn't fit their needs they can and should walk away.

They can !!!! Shit did I miss reading the fine print again!!! Mmmmm damn I guess they are right.... So human food in the dog dish it is! But the don't need a napkin!,,, Or utensils ! That is a hard limit!!!

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RE: Puppy play - 8/13/2013 7:22:29 PM

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years ago..I was into mentally deep into "puppy play"...oh, it was fun when it was done...but really hard to stay in that mode for long..just not natural.......but for an on again off again activity to do with the Dom or Mistress you are with is a really big plus!

< Message edited by playfulotter -- 8/13/2013 7:23:15 PM >

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