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martin1960 -> Question (8/14/2013 9:27:32 AM)

Are there Masters or Mistresses who only wish to spank their slaves?



mnottertail -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 9:27:57 AM)

Probably. Why do you ask?



Hillwilliam -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 9:29:25 AM)

If you ask a question. "Are there [insert type of person here] who only wish to [Insert activity here]" The answer will almost definitely be "yes"



Kismet898 -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 9:33:20 AM)

At Martin, why yes.. I adore giving a boy a good beating..



LadyPact -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 9:44:10 AM)

There is a nice part included in the FAQ.


Q: Are there any (how many) dominant women into [insert your favorite kink here]?

A: While there is no way to answer the question of how many dominant women enjoy a particular activity, we can assure you that if you like it, chances are there’s a dominant woman somewhere in the world who likes it too. However, it’s beyond our ability to guarantee you’ll find one here. What we can guarantee is that, if you post a thread asking how many dominant women like your choice in kinks, many of us will be quick to assume you’re looking for semi-pornographic material to fuel your masturbatory fantasies (i.e. “wank fodder”) and shoot you down in record time.

Sometimes, folks who are only interested in spanking are called spankos. There are some out there. I don't happen to be one of them. Unlike another poster, I don't consider just spanking someone to be a "good beating" and I tend to prefer heavier elements of sadism.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 9:45:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

If you ask a question. "Are there [insert type of person here] who only wish to [Insert activity here]" The answer will almost definitely be "yes"


Pretty much this.

The important part of your question is the word 'only'. Do you mean they only want to spank as in, they don't want to engage in more edgy forms of play like whips and cutting? Or do you mean they only want to spank as in, they don't want any other relationship, just spanking sessions?

There are lots of people who want to keep the play on the lighter end of the spectrum. Most people want some sort of relationship beyond beating though, even if that 'relationship' is just friendship or help with yardwork. If you only want to meet-and-beat, you might be looking for a pro.

Don't forget that the terms you are using mean different things to different people. To a lot of folks in this forum, 'Mistress and slave' speaks of a level of deep submission in many aspects of life and of serious commitment. However it's also used by many in the porno sense to mean pretty much any kinky scenario with the woman on top. Depending on how you use those terms will also change your reply.



SoulAlloy -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 9:59:04 AM)

I've seen spanking groups and spanking munches before, so almost certainly yes



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 11:52:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: martin1960

Are there Masters or Mistresses who only wish to spank their slaves?


Of course there are. However, the only ones that matter are the ones that wish to spank YOU, right?



RumpusParable -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 4:35:59 PM)

I'm also given pause by the phrasing of the question in giving an answer..

OP, do you mean "only wish to spank" as in they just play with you... they don't run anything in your life, you and your partner just spend time having spanking fun? If that's it, then I'd say an "almost absolutely not, though you can never truly rule something out totally". Because "Master" and "Mistress" tend to be terms used to indicate people who are dominant in a relationship to one extent or another... so finding someone who identifies as someone who likes to run the relationship but who doesn't want to run the relationship and only enjoy spanking with you isn't likely.

If you mean "only wish to spank" as in the master or mistress wants to run the relationship to some extent as agreed but doesn't want any other form of BDSM play than spanking, then sure, they are findable I'd say. Not common, but they are out there.



DarkSteven -> RE: Question (8/14/2013 4:50:46 PM)

There are numerous subs that I spank, and nothing else. I meet them at spanking parties, play with them, and then we go our separate ways.



martin1960 -> RE: Question (8/15/2013 5:23:25 AM)

Mistress DarkArt

Yes, of course. I except that they are in control

martin



martin1960 -> RE: Question (8/15/2013 5:24:37 AM)

Because I am seeking such and would consider a Dom, if he doesn't require sexual use

martin



ShaharThorne -> RE: Question (8/15/2013 5:26:25 AM)

Note to self: If I get to a certain state, look up DS for a good spanking...



TNDommeK -> RE: Question (8/16/2013 3:34:31 AM)

Yes, I have slaves that I only do spankings and such with. I'm only sexual with my husband.



DarkSteven -> RE: Question (8/16/2013 4:48:10 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: martin1960

Because I am seeking such and would consider a Dom, if he doesn't require sexual use

martin



So what DO you want? Defining a relationship as one that includes spankings and excludes sex, leaves a lot open.

Are you looking for simple play sessions an nothing else? Doing service for him? Being a part of his family, and going out with him/them socially? There are lots of ways it could work.



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