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DesFIP -> RE: Doms with kids (8/15/2013 12:08:48 PM)
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This is not a blog, it's a forum.
If you're seeking how to have a successful long term poly relationship when you have a child, it's exactly the same way you have a successful long term monogamous relationship when you have a child.
You begin the relationship by getting a sitter and going elsewhere for the evening. You date for months and years without allowing your child to do more than meet your new date briefly. After you're well past the new relationship energy period and you're going strong, then you invite the new partner to come over for a barbecue and throw a frisbee. You slowly integrate them as friends into the relationship.
And since you're married, both you and your wife need to be in love with the new person before they get invited over for dinner.
You seem to think you can tell the new person and your wife that they must love and like each other.
It doesn't work any more than you going up to a strange woman on the street and telling her she wants to fuck you works. You and your wife need to date the new person together. You need to be on the same page or you'll destroy your marriage and find yourself without physical custody.
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