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AlphaFemsRule -> RE: How bout a big dildo in his mouth? Why not? (3/27/2014 7:43:23 AM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
Subs, where does sucking on a dildo fall on the spectrum for you, and how do you see the dominant's enjoyment or disassociation of it?
I really like it, but it has nothing to do with humiliation for me. It's about acknowledgment.
Plus, I enjoy the fluidity of gender roles, especially the idea that naturally dominant women often have personality traits that are considered 'masculine': confidence, leadership, strength, decisiveness, etc. Rather than feel conflicted about it or try to hide who they are because society shames them, they embrace it - and a 'cock' can sort of be a proud, physical expression of that. It's the same way I love using the word "bitch" as a high compliment. It removes the absurd stigma around strong female personalities and turns it into something incredibly sexy.
Putting the two together, it's like she's saying: "if being self-actualized and dominant means I'm 'masculine' and a bitch, so be it. Here's my cock. But I'm not going to change. You can either suck on it and thank me for being awesome, or you can fuck off." I think a lot of guys would recoil at the idea, but submissive men (or ones like me, anyway) would jump at the chance to say thank you. And she can let all the other girls run circles around themselves, feeling bad about being called "bitches" while she sits back and gets her cock sucked, whilst being 100% woman.
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