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Kana -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 2:34:35 PM)

Tears are for cleansing



MrRodgers -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 4:45:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana

Tears are for cleansing

.....and naturally do a damn good job of it.



DesFIP -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 6:44:46 PM)

The Man always pauses when I start crying. It's important to him to find out why. Am I okay? Is there bad pain or has he hit an emotional trigger? Or is it just catharsis, gaining an emotional release through the mechanism of a physical release.



Winterapple -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 8:25:57 PM)

FR
It's not unusual for me to cry after having an orgasm.
Sometimes our mutual goal is to reduce me to a great
sobbing mess.
There are times when after we've shared something especially
intimate and beautiful that we both get teary

Outside of our intimate life I'm not one who cries at the drop
of a hat. And I've never been a woman who can turn the
waterworks on at will. When I do cry it's usually an indication
I've been very moved by something or something serious has
happened or is going on.

I've never cried when we've had a disagreement. If I did
I think he would think I was tired or feeling to emotional
to be sensible and we'd discuss it when I was calmer.
The only time I've ever called him at work in tears he knew
it was something serious. He just found out where I was and
told me to stay there til he got there.







AlluraVogue -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 8:56:27 PM)

Maybe. Sometimes I cry just because I think of a sad movie, or a kitten doing a chin-up. I don't really think it's always a mans job to fix the source of my crying or to assume it's something that needs fixing. Are we talking like, you spank her and she cries so you stop? That's what safe words are for *shrug*



Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 8:56:46 PM)

Crying helps me release stress. When I went in for what I thought was normal monitoring at 36 weeks turned into being sent to labor and delivery due to my blood pressure being so high, I cried. I was not prepared at all and had my daughter with me. I tried calling my husband but he was in a meeting. I tried finding her a McDonalds and since I was so stressed I only got myself lost. The secretary got him a message and he called me, by that time I was sobbing just from worrying about being sent over with nothing and wondering what to do with my daughter. He helped me find my way to the McDonalds and told me everything would be fine. Between talking to him and letting myself cry the fear out by the time I got back to the hospital I was fine. Now looking back to when the baby was born it is one of mine and my husbands fun memories we smile at.



NuevaVida -> RE: I am too much of a softy. (8/16/2013 11:11:37 PM)

I'm a cryer and he loves it. If I'm crying due to an external cause he helps me through it. If I'm crying because I screwed up with him he lets me. If I'm crying because he screwed up with me he fixes it.

And then there are the times he wants me to cry - for my own good or for his enjoyment - and he makes me.

The man loves my tears.



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