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Rochsub2009 -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/20/2013 7:13:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: polaranda

Yes even yours roch.


You obviously realized that I was being facetious. But if you take what I wrote and do the exact opposite, then it's actually good advice.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/21/2013 6:19:42 PM)

When you contact her, contact her as a woman and a person first, as a Dominant second. Dommes are women and like to be treated as women. There is a great section here called Cmail Help: How to Contact a Dominant Woman, and it has all sorts of good stuff in it. [:)]

NBMG



polaranda -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/21/2013 8:17:52 PM)

Thank you for that I will check it out right now.



DesFIP -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/21/2013 9:04:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: marissyner

I'm still trying to work out why the hell there's this weird convention where it's up to the sub to contact the Domme..
Is it the same for subs contacting Doms?

Either way, it seems like a stupidly antiquated social convention.


A couple of things. First male subs outnumber dommes by at least 10 to 1. Could well be 100 to 1. As such no domme needs to go out searching when she has literally of dozens of guys a day writing her.

Second, just like other women, they mostly do enjoy being sought after. Being courted.

Now, since there are more male doms than female subs, it works the same there. Guys are more likely to be focused on finding a partner for sex. Women, even old fat women like me, could go to the corner bar and get picked up immediately.

Women don't have to go out of their way to find possible partners.

But when you have 50 or more emails a day, you also don't have that much time to read all those profiles plus search for dozens more.



goddessoflight -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/22/2013 11:49:02 AM)

Rochsub2009 That is SOOO true.
I just love it when a sub say's hi, here's what all you can do to me ! Wow... how privileged am I? (NOT)



Rochsub2009 -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/23/2013 7:08:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: goddessoflight

I just love it when a sub say's hi, here's what all you can do to me ! Wow... how privileged am I? (NOT)



I agree. But what's even worse is when people send messages that just say "Hi". That's the entire content of their e-mail. Just that one word. How does one even respond to that? More importantly, WHY should anyone respond to that?

It amazes me that there are people out there who actually think that "Hi" is a good message to send to someone. To make matters worse, they were probably proud of themselves for sending such a deep and meaningful message. [8|]




MissKittyDeVine -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/23/2013 11:23:54 AM)

I had one of those today. As many other people did, no doubt. Yes, 'Hi' really makes an impression ... the wrong one.



garyFLR -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/24/2013 8:29:44 AM)

If someone was to send you a message, how would you like it to read?



garyFLR -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/24/2013 8:37:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

I had one of those today. As many other people did, no doubt. Yes, 'Hi' really makes an impression ... the wrong one.


Dear MissKitty,

I'd love to send you a message just saying 'Hi'. but I don't dare, I haven't got the bottle [:(].



polaranda -> RE: proper etiquette? (8/24/2013 8:43:03 AM)

Wow! What a response. I never thought there would be so many people offering such excellent advice. Thank you all. This has been very helpful!



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