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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 4:57:28 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Enigmabrat....as far as i'm concerned.. NOT A DAMN THING... but there are quite a few who believe when ones uses "true" "real" in screen names.. and or profiles... red flags go up... or they're ignored as being fakes.. wankers.. etc... been a few threads on them..and post of them in passing.


MoGA.... you got that right... got tired of not having my paddles...LOL...

LOL Bita.. ..... thanks... was getting drafty standing about nude

BBBTBW..... Nicely put...and I agree all the way.

The thing I believe that got me the most... was even though I state this is just a screen name... it became more than that to me.... and the more the "true" was being attacked.. the less I felt comfortable. So thinking I would feel more at ease...and ease others.. I switched.... not the best idea i've ever had i'm telling you. I was so uncomfortable...I started taking notice of attitude in my post on the fourm...and in conversations with others contacting me in e-mails and IMs from CM. During the couple of weeks I used other name..I felt like fake. I felt so outta my own place that it was just making me uneasy... down right mad.

Granted it's just a screen name... but it's who I am...and how I think see myself... think of myself... and glad to see others seen it too.... thanks everyone for understanding. Sorry if this seemed like an attention thread... But I just wanted to say TRUE was back...........


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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 5:25:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Ok... I've decided to get back my original screen name that I joined CM with back in Nov. Breakmeshakeme... just really wasn't me. This is who I really am. God this is just a screen name.... and how I feel about who I am.

So this is not a rant.. or a way of ... oh what the hell... yes it is.. it's my way of saying .... I really do not care who dislikes "True".. or "Real".. in a screen name... and or profile.

I had sat back a few weeks ago and read post after post of peoples dislikes of these words. And I got to thinking after LA posted about disliking the word "Natural" as well... that I'm missing who I really am...and really do not care about others likes and dislikes.  So thanks to CM...I got my real name back..and now this bitch is back..and till the same pain in the ass I always was and will be.

So if seeing "true" and or "real" offends ones eye sights. CM has been kind enough to add a block feature to the forums....

WOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I AM BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..... and it feels gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooood.







I guess this would be a perfect time to ask a question that has been on my mind for a long time now...

How/When/Why did these words become so contemptible?


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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 5:50:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		truesub4u

i agree totally.  a screen nic is what we chose for ourselves, and something we personally identify with for our own reasons.  there should be no right or wrong about it.  some nics may offend or give people certain impressions of that person, but that is all personal perceptions.
glad to see you back under the nic that makes YOU most comfortable.
aintbehavin.

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 5:56:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		never hide your "true" self from anyone. if others don't like it, it's their tough luck, not yours. i'm me and after some careful thinking (and encouragement) i've decided that i shouldn't have to change for anyone (except the one that captures this lil brat). keep your head high and never let anyone change you (at least, not too much...LOL)

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 6:01:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Damn i just realized how easy it is to confuse me..............i had no clue true and break were the same person...WB true lol

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 6:06:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't want no true sub, no challengethere.  I wanted to break you, put this thing aright for the love of pete.

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 6:08:05 AM   
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I agree with you, girly, I'm tired of shying away from words just because some people use them to beat others over the head with.


Don't bend to anal retentive or PC muppets. If they don't like it then tough


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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 6:12:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I don't want no true sub, no challengethere.  I wanted to break you, put this thing aright for the love of pete.

LOLOL,

You can be who you want, baby.


LOL Ron... I should of known...


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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 6:50:18 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion
How/When/Why did these words become so contemptible?

For me it's not the words, but how they are used.  Usually they are used as a random way to make people feel "cooler" about themselves, or to have some irrational definition of "real" and anyone who they don't like gets shoved into the "not real" category.

I never expect others to share my perspectives, we all have language quirks that we like and don't like.  I also hate the word subbie and domme and I know that those words aren't going to go away any time soon, nor are people using them in a generally negative way.

I could just as easily say why do people make a fuss over people who don't like particular words?

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 7:22:38 AM   
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MoGA.... you got that right... got tired of not having my paddles...LOL...


I KNEW it!! You aren't real after all!!!
 
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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 7:26:39 AM   
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I could just as easily say why do people make a fuss over people who don't like particular words?


Oooooh LA, sounds like a new thread <s>

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 8:06:03 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		LA  makes no sense. How did she put it... it's not the word... but how it's used. It makes others feel cooler about themselves... I don't feel cooler.. I in fact feel comfortable.  I don't feel cooler...... I feel.... ME...

I have no problems with others opinions about words. But the words are there...and they're gonna bother someone.  Hell if  I'm called a bitch... I smile and say thank you.... others get pist and want to fight. If i'm called a whore (by my dom) I swoon and say thank you... someone else... Probably gonna get their ass kicked. So yes it's how words are stated....and by whom. But they are totally different words... when saying bitch or whore...and true or real.

Saying True... doesn't make me feel like I'm cooler... doesn't make me think i'm more real or not next to someone who doesn't use or like the word true... it just simply describes me....as I see me.. for how I want someone to see me... and get to know me..that I will want to get to know. Because I feel comfortable being able to say... Yes..I'm true.. to myself... and that's what we look for when we meet people..... we look for them to be real.... and true... in all they do in life. If all I wanted was fake... I would of named myself.... fakesub4u.....


Edited to add..........MoGA.... don't be giving out all my secrets....lol



< Message edited by truesub4u -- 6/30/2006 8:07:32 AM >

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 8:12:10 AM   
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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 8:13:12 AM   
eroticangel


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Status: offline 		more power to you for going back.....i mean a screen name is a screen  name.....it's only about what you feel and how you like it....sheesh, i know i am not an nagel, but i still think the nick fits me....more power to you truesub4u!  i truely like this better than the other you used!

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 8:25:06 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
Saying True... doesn't make me feel like I'm cooler... doesn't make me think i'm more real or not next to someone who doesn't use or like the word true... it just simply describes me....as I see me.. for how I want someone to see me... and get to know me..that I will want to get to know. Because I feel comfortable being able to say... Yes..I'm true.. to myself... and that's what we look for when we meet people..... we look for them to be real.... and true... in all they do in life. If all I wanted was fake... I would of named myself.... fakesub4u.....

We've been through this on other threads.  I've never seen anyone tell you that this is what YOU were doing when you made your screen name.  Whether you were doing this just for amusement or partially in seriousness- you are the one who seems to take the matter of your screen name more seriously than anyone else.

I know I never have and never will start a thread about it, that's for sure.  I have my feelings, they are my own, and it's not going to ever change anything about what language a person chooses to use.  I only bring up my feelings when it's relevant to the discussion and I know I've never told someone that their screen name was annoying to me. 

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 8:55:48 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Actually LA.. this wasn't about you personally. And you only helped in your post about the word "natural" being used.

As far as me personally... No I never made mention that I was personally attacked on the forums about my screen name. And it's not so much the screen name...as the use of certain words.. that have been attacked.... because someone doesn't like the way it's used.. or.. how was it stated... tossed out there to make them look cooler.

Screw the damn screen name...LOL....


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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 8:57:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing is wrong with those words.  They're just words.  Use them if they are right for you.

Glad you stood up for yourself, truesub.  Just because some people are loud and/or verbose doesn't mean they're right all the time.  They're opinions, they're not gospel.

Now the WAY words are used can be irritating.  But it's no reason not to use them if they fit the bill for YOU.

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 12:24:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Words are just words, how you react is your choice. People have tried to get a rise out of me by calling me various things and they never succeed. I either calmly thank them, or calmly ask how they came to that conclusion. If "True" or "Natural" means fake than what words are we to use? If someone chooses to see those as red flags it's their choice, probably not worth your time anyways.

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 12:35:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		In the old days people took screen names much more seriously.  Now they just pick whatever they want.  It really sickens me.

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RE: It's Just a Frickin Screen Name - 6/30/2006 3:06:51 PM   
PlayfulOne


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