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What to expect and what to ask for? - 8/23/2013 11:11:30 PM

MouthyGirly

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My appointment with a Mistress is coming up and it's my first experience. Her list of specialties is long, but most seem to apply to men.

My main reason for going is to receive discipline. I am so nervous about what is going to happen as I don't know what to expect.

Can I ask for dildo worship? I don't know what is appropriate or not. I don't want to piss her off before we even start.

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RE: What to expect and what to ask for? - 8/24/2013 12:32:52 AM

MissImmortalPain

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You can ask for anything you want. She will decide if she will provide the service for you or not. If she is a professional it is more likely that she provides a long list of services. If she is not than it will depend on what interests her and what doesn't.

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RE: What to expect and what to ask for? - 8/24/2013 1:01:34 AM

SerWhiteTiger

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You can ask for anything you want. If you piss her off by being a bit wishy-washy and uncertain, she probably isn't worth your time. Try talking with her first.

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RE: What to expect and what to ask for? - 8/24/2013 5:46:33 AM

MissLalaDom

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A good Domme will always ask about your interests, the types of things you fear or dread, and your hard limits. Then it's up to her to decide which ones to administer while respecting your limits.

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RE: What to expect and what to ask for? - 8/24/2013 7:11:40 AM

MouthyGirly

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Thank you all :) I felt kind of weird asking since there isn't a lot out there on women going to mistresses

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