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johnnyhigh -> how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/26/2013 2:12:21 AM)

I'm johnny I'm a carpenter so much I want to learn how do u have confidence in being a dom and a sub




johnnyhigh -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/26/2013 2:14:16 AM)

What the heck




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/26/2013 3:01:41 AM)

Hi Johnnyhigh,

Best way for a carpenter to learn how to be a dom or sub? Measure twice, cut once.

Welcome to Collarme.




garyFLR -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/26/2013 4:31:37 AM)

Hi Johnny & welcome to CM.

The best way to learn anything on CM is to visit & contribute to the forums.

We're a great bunch of people there, if there's anything you want to know about, there's always someone there to help you out with info.

Look for the Ask A Mistress/Master/sub/switch sections.

Plus of course the forums are good fun.

Good luck, Gary.




LonDom61 -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/26/2013 10:37:50 PM)

Hi johnny

Welcome to CM and the forums.

This (coming over to this side, not just posting a profile then start emailing a bunch of prospects) is an excellent start.

Read the forums. Ask questions. Read other stuff. Reference type stuff. Not fantasy-based crap. Maybe take a look on Amazon for a good primer or two.

Think about what you want and need. Think about what is reasonable to expect to have to offer the other person who supplies that. ALWAYS consider the other person.

Look for local meetups. Munches are casual meetings in bars or restaurants where kinksters just hang out and socialize. There may be training events near you. Google is your friend. Start with the search term BDSM plus your home town or state.

Good luck

LD




Rasciallymisty -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/27/2013 5:23:41 AM)

Hello and welcome Johnny to the forums, you have been give great advice already...so I will just add, stick around and join in on the discussions that take place on this side.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/27/2013 5:42:15 AM)

By experience. Find a much, make friends, go to some play parties and observe.





ARIES83 -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/27/2013 7:34:52 AM)

I'll level with you...
You have to kill someone that has confidence... And that will make your confidence grow stronger... Like Highlander. There can be only one. [:-]

**Welcome to the forum! Haha, Some advice thats less likely to get you arrested is to go read and participate in some of the forums, then you may be a bit more familiar with what your asking.***




OohAahMrs -> RE: how to gain confedence its being a dom (8/29/2013 5:47:07 AM)

Welcome, you're half way there already. with a name like Johnny! Err.............what was the question again?




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