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Txtruemalesub -> for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 2:22:28 AM)

 a Mistress is my Nuber 1 Goal.
But i have been confronted by a Master says he would help me get a Mistress if i would serve Him for a few years frist.
Is that unheard of in this lifestyle??
Should i walk away from His offer, or should i give it a try?



ShiftedJewel -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 3:58:32 AM)

The only reason you should "give it a try" is because you want to serve that particular dominant. Doesn't sound right to me, in fact, it sounds downright selfish to me... If he were all that concerned about you finding the dominant you truly want he would "help" with no other motivation then to see you happy.
 
I wouldn't walk away from his offer... I'd run.
 
Jewel



RavenMuse -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 4:44:17 AM)

Would you want to submit to that Master without the 'carrot' held in front of your nose of him 'helping' you find a Mistress at 'somepoint' in the future. If the answer is no then there is no point even considering doing so.



Txtruemalesub -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 5:03:05 AM)

 Well thank You  ShiftedJewel & RavenMuse for Ya'lls help. i was really uncomfortable with the idea, so i thought i would seek some advice.
Thanks very much, and i hope You both have a good day.



Misstoyou -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 9:31:08 AM)

I know it's hard as a young submissive to find a dominant woman, but there really are no short-cuts. I find my own submissives, on my own terms, with my own requirements. Experience in the lifestyle is a good thing, but being trained to someone else's specifications, whether the previous dominant is female or male, is not a selling point.




peterK50 -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 1:58:27 PM)

I would be very suspicious of his motives.



MzDonna -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 2:00:40 PM)

I agree wholeheartedly, why would someone offer to help you find a Mistress with "strings attached." One either offers or they don't . I would say run too, there is something a bit strange to my thinking in that situation...If a Mistress is who you seek, then seek a Mistress, you do not need to serve a "Master" first to find one ..
Yes it is a very hard journey to find the right partner and it's not only the submissives having this problem, many of us dominants have the same problem, alot of players and not enough "true" submissives seeking ..Give it time . You WILL find your Mistress, patience is one thing we ALL learn in this lifestyle ..
the best of luck in your search and may the blessings of all that we hold true come to you
MzDonna



MstrTiger -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 2:21:36 PM)


You have not really given enough information about him to draw a proper conclusion, though I think it sounds like he is a dirty manipulative perv.



LadyHugs -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 6:23:46 PM)

Dear Txtruemalesub, Ladies and Gentlemen,
 
I have heard of mentoring but, not take in a slave for a few years as to promise finding a Mistress later.
 
Masters and Mistresses prefer training their own slaves.  So, what you learn will be that Master's personal protocol and training.  It won't hurt to live the experience however, it will not be the magic lamp to finding a dominant woman you seek.
 
Submit to somebody for that many years because you have a personal connection, bond, communication and such to create a special relationship as Master/slave.
 
But, I have to agree to be careful.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs



TexasMaam -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 9:24:26 PM)

What are you asking US for?

Slut.

TexasMaam



kc692 -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 9:55:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

What are you asking US for?

Slut.

TexasMaam




**Looks at the commonality of the state between the OP and TM, thinks there must be some history between them for her to call the OP "slut" like that, and quietly leaves the room shaking head.**



gypsyssoul -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 10:52:37 PM)

:: puts her 2 cents back in her pocket
and bails with kc692
 
... ok
:: watchs from the corner to where this one goes ..
 



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 11:01:58 PM)

quote:

But i have been confronted by a Master says he would help me get a Mistress if i would serve Him for a few years frist.
Sounds fishy to me, and like you're about to be taken for a ride.
If you like said master, and want to have a relationship with him, than by all means do that.  But he shouldn't need to use you before he can pimp you off on someone else.
Good luck,   M
Or I could have said what MstrTiger said, LOL
quote:

though I think it sounds like he is a dirty manipulative perv.



Sublime5446 -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 11:03:43 PM)

yeah im looking for a mistress its tough work...   ;___;
keep at it though... i am ^^

submissively,
Sublime



onyurknees -> RE: for A/anyone..... (6/30/2006 11:11:01 PM)

Do keep at it and unless you meet someone who, for friendship's sake, offers to help you, be VERY suspicious of their motives.
If you offer sincerity, honesty and the energy to keep searching and trying and failing and trying again, then likely you will find what you seek.
Many of Us are in similar positions or points in our lives and I think many can sympathize for that reason.
I guess one can only hope that the destination and the journey are both to be savoured.



TexasMaam -> RE: for A/anyone..... (7/1/2006 1:06:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

What are you asking US for?

Slut.

TexasMaam




**Looks at the commonality of the state between the OP and TM, thinks there must be some history between them for her to call the OP "slut" like that, and quietly leaves the room shaking head.**


lolololol!
KC it's so good to see you!

Actually, no, I don't believe I know this boy but goodness gracious Me...who would ever post a thread asking:

"...blah blah this happened that happened blah blah... duh.. should I serve this person?"

I mean, really now!  The post was a banner for attention.

Oy, Vey!

TexasMaam

PS I miss your posts, KC692!

pss: I call all boys sluts! ; )  especially those who post unabashedly begging for attention!  the post was probably just a silly bait post to liven up the boards. TM



MzDonna -> RE: for A/anyone..... (7/1/2006 1:31:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

What are you asking US for?

Slut.

TexasMaam


What is he asking us for ... mmmm  * reads the title of the forum again* " yep says Ask a Mistress"



TexasMaam -> RE: for A/anyone..... (7/1/2006 1:35:18 PM)

So you ask a dozen online Mistresses whether you should or should not serve someone you're considering petitioning?

Golly. Next time I have a sub under consideration I think I'll post and ask everyone on here whether they think I should accept the boy for service or not.

Oh, Puhleeze!

TexasMaam



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: for A/anyone..... (7/1/2006 2:17:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Txtruemalesub
...i was really uncomfortable with the idea, so i thought i would seek some advice....


And wisely so.  The whole thing doesn't smell right and his motives sound selfish.
 
And what can he really do for you in terms of finding you a Mistress that you cannot do for yourself?  Yes, it takes time and patience.
 
Lady Topaz



crouchingtigress -> RE: for A/anyone..... (7/1/2006 8:31:22 PM)

sometimes we already know the answer but we post here to get differing perspectives, maybe cover something we dont know about, and sometimes it feels really good to be confirmed in our own assessment of a decision as weighty as should i serve as a slave for several years of my life.
 

but i am with you on the slut thing, i have never met a submissive boy that wasn't one...(thank goodness)




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