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MKerry -> What's with all the racism on here? (8/27/2013 10:06:01 PM)
I've been apart of a lot of BDSM/fetish websites over the years, and I've never encountered such the blunt, random racism at other sites like I have on here. What the fuck!

evesgrden -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/27/2013 10:21:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MKerry I've been apart of a lot of BDSM/fetish websites over the years, and I've never encountered such the blunt, random racism at other sites like I have on here. What the fuck! That's likely because it's not racism. I think you're trying to say that people are prejudiced against other sites.. except they're not prejudging. They are expressing a preference for something with which they are already familiar. A website isn't a race, and it's frequented by those who like what it has to offer. If you don't like the site, you don't go. Saying you don't like the site is just expressing an opinion and despite how hyper-PC people can be these days you're going to be hard pressed to take a holier than thou stance on this one. Well, you can take the stance but good luck getting anyone taking you seriously.

SerWhiteTiger -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/27/2013 10:27:16 PM)
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LadyPact -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/27/2013 10:28:55 PM)
If you are referring to things that you are receiving in your mail, OP, that's one of the unfortunate effects of new membership here. If you are referring to discussions on the boards, could you list an example?

MsLadySue -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/27/2013 10:42:42 PM)
In her profile she states she is a FinDomme which could be part of her problem.

metamorfosis -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 12:45:01 AM)
I haven't seen it, although someone recently mentioned that white heterosexuals seem overrepresented on the forums. I suspect you were talking about the other side. If what you say is true then be grateful such people are kind enough to expose themselves. It probably saves you some time.

AaNiMaLl -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 1:00:20 AM)
I don't know about other sites because I have never belonged to any. But I think that when it comes to fetishes then people can be very specific. Like, a guy that likes to be wheeled around in a pram while sucking a spoon singing heavy metal with a transvestite pushing him. That is what they can get like some times. So if someone has a preference in terms of race then I don't really bat an eye lid. ...it reminds me of that song Bawitaba by Kid Rock, as long as it's all in fun then I don't have a problem with it. Also, I don't like this FinDom. Grr. It is just money making right? Hmm I would like to FinDom a FinDom, I just have to figure it out. It would probably put me back in prison though.

SunTzuSwe -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 4:53:35 AM)
Racism? Have I missed something? People having preferences concerning possible partners hardly qualifies as racism, rather I'd say pragmatism. Some like fat people, some like skinny, others like black, caucasian or whatever. It's just about who turns you on.

lizi -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 5:13:25 AM)
If you're going to complain about something, why not explain more about it? What racism? Is it the messages you're getting? You do know as a fin dome of almost 3 years, that some people use race to get their rocks off, right?

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 5:16:26 AM)
She'd a femdom, she posted to drum up bizness. Now that we've helped her, let's let it die. Unless someone wants to begin a 'real' thread on the issue.

SweetAnise -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 5:23:14 AM)
OP can you be more specific? What do you mean? Can you give us an example of what you're speaking about?

SweetAnise -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 5:27:21 AM)
Oh :/ Thanks for the FYI ChatteParfaitt

Rochsub2009 -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 6:56:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MKerry I've been apart of a lot of BDSM/fetish websites over the years, and I've never encountered such the blunt, random racism at other sites like I have on here. What the fuck! MKerry, I'm African-American, and I've been on this site for years. I can't say that I've seen much racism. Sure, there have been a few idiots over the years, but nothing widespread. I think the response that you're getting may be due to the fact that you're a findom, and not due to your race. Findoms don't receive much love around here. In fact, they're probably more hated than pedophiles (judging by the number of "I hate findoms" threads that we see around here). Some of those who attack you for being a findom may bring your race into their attack. But it's probably not your race that set them off. BTW, as others have mentioned, it's easier for us to give helpful responses to your posts if you actually share an example of what you're referring to. Right now, we're all just guessing. Please be more specific when you post in the future, and you'll get more helpful/intelligent responses. -Roch

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 7:08:47 AM)
The OP only joined one day before posting. That's a very short time to experience so much alleged racism. So I'm inclined to agree it was a thinly-disguised ad. quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt She'd a femdom, she posted to drum up bizness. Now that we've helped her, let's let it die. Unless someone wants to begin a 'real' thread on the issue.

SerWhiteTiger -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 7:13:58 AM)
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Sheela22 -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 8:34:26 AM)
Just because certain race or hair color,or skin color turns me on doesn't make me a racist. You can't get turned on by everyone. It's just personal preference .

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/28/2013 6:16:19 PM)
If this is a thinly-disguised ad to get more business(pay pigs, etc), your ad belongs here, not on the discussion forums. If you're just getting hate mail in your Cmail Inbox, I would be willing to bet it has a lot more to do with being a FinDom than being African American. If you think it's racism, could you please give us some concrete examples of what you're referring to? NBMG

VideoAdminChi -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (8/29/2013 5:37:06 AM)
FR, This thread is now in Off Topic.

Toucan -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (9/1/2013 11:15:12 AM)
Actually, groups of people have a right to exist under international law. If someone say's "it is racist that a white person only wants to be with white people", the person saying that is "racist", in a very real sense could be arrested and tried under international law with the crime of genocide or conspiracy to commit genocide, as "creating living conditions that contribute to the destruction in part or in whole of a group of people, is an act of genocide". Seriously, everyone needs to read the UN Convention on the Prevention of Genocide.

DomKen -> RE: What's with all the racism on here? (9/1/2013 4:43:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Toucan Actually, groups of people have a right to exist under international law. If someone say's "it is racist that a white person only wants to be with white people", the person saying that is "racist", in a very real sense could be arrested and tried under international law with the crime of genocide or conspiracy to commit genocide, as "creating living conditions that contribute to the destruction in part or in whole of a group of people, is an act of genocide". Seriously, everyone needs to read the UN Convention on the Prevention of Genocide. That is seriously one of the most ridiculous claims I have ever read on this forum and I read P&R.

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