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MangoTango -> Hi! (8/29/2013 5:48:54 PM)

Hello! :)

I'm not really sure if this is going in the right section or not, so I apologize in advance for it.

Anywho,

I'm 22 a female, and I live In Florida. I'm very curious about being a submissive, though I've never done anything like that before. And I'm interested in finding the right Dominate man that would slowly introduce me into such a world. I'm not into taking orders right away, so please don't message me and try any of that... But if anyone would be willing to give me their hand and slowly show me what it's like I would be up for that

Thanks! :D



DarkSteven -> RE: Hi! (8/29/2013 8:15:14 PM)

Hi there! I know this isn't what you say you're looking for, but you might want to check into local groups first. Florida has lots of 'em.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Hi! (8/29/2013 9:15:28 PM)

Welcome! you can learn a lot just by reading many of the ongoing threads and by searching previous ones. Since there are a variety of people here, you get to hear many different sides & see things from a different perspective.



Rasciallymisty -> RE: Hi! (8/30/2013 6:41:47 AM)

Hello and welcome to the forums, the discussion side of the site. Both DarkSteven and TieMeInKnots have given you some great advice not much I can add to that. It's nice to have you join us and hopefully you will stick around and join in on a few of the discussions on this side. Happy posting.



mnottertail -> RE: Hi! (8/30/2013 6:42:49 AM)

Welcome.



JeffBC -> RE: Hi! (8/30/2013 7:40:42 AM)

Hey, welcome to Collarme and I love that nick :)

So I'll just go ahead and say the same thing I always say in these situations... what do you mean by "dominant" and "submissive". Trust me on this, those words cover A LOT of ground. Are you thinking bedroom only or does this go beyond "play"? Otherwise, I'm a dominant but I don't do any kinky stuff. Kana's a dominant and he's a badass sadist with a twisted streak. Someone else may be a "dominant" but it's sex-only (what we call a top around here). See what I mean? If you want someone to introduce you to "such a world" it'd be helpful if you could clarify what that was. Yeah yeah, I know you're new so it's all fuzzy and vague but you must have some image in your head that drew you here. What is it?



MangoTango -> RE: Hi! (8/30/2013 8:07:39 PM)

You're very right, I'll explain myself better.

Again, I have no idea what the majority of these terms that are used around here, so I'll try to be as specific as I can to give a better clarification.

What I have fantasied about is someone completely controlling every aspect of my life, basically thinking for me if that makes any sense. Tying me up using me as His toy to play with abusing me with whips and making me beg for his cock. Having an audience as he using me as his toy. Now again, I've never experienced ANY of this sort, But I do have it in my mind that I would like to give it a try and see if it's something for me. Since I'm so new though and don't even know about how any of this works, I would like someone to guide me through this. Very very slowly.

I hope this gives everyone sort of a better idea of what i'm searching of.



OohAahMrs -> RE: Hi! (8/31/2013 4:37:32 AM)

You've been Tango'ed, welcome to CM



garyFLR -> RE: Hi! (8/31/2013 4:59:14 AM)

Hi Mango,

Welcome to CM. Why not join us on the forums, where you can debate & get some good advice.

Best wishes, Gary.



MangoTango -> RE: Hi! (8/31/2013 5:20:33 AM)

I will definitely :)

quote:

ORIGINAL: garyFLR

Hi Mango,

Welcome to CM. Why not join us on the forums, where you can debate & get some good advice.

Best wishes, Gary.




johnbainum -> RE: Hi! (9/20/2013 3:49:24 PM)

Welcome to cm, I'm also in Florida[8D]



Daddy133 -> RE: Hi! (9/20/2013 4:35:04 PM)

Welcome. You seem like my type of girl. I would be more than willing to break you in to your new lifestyle. Obviously I enjoy being called Daddy, and I especially love being spoiled by a tiny little young petite thing as yourself. :3

I hope you have fun here. :3



OsideGirl -> RE: Hi! (9/20/2013 5:05:25 PM)

Welcome to the forums!

I would highly recommend getting out to meet your local community and since you're new, possibly find yourself a submissive female mentor.

I understand that Florida has a very active group of communities and I think you may find them beneficial.



DarkSteven -> RE: Hi! (9/20/2013 6:15:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MangoTango

You're very right, I'll explain myself better.

Again, I have no idea what the majority of these terms that are used around here, so I'll try to be as specific as I can to give a better clarification.

What I have fantasied about is someone completely controlling every aspect of my life, basically thinking for me if that makes any sense. Tying me up using me as His toy to play with abusing me with whips and making me beg for his cock. Having an audience as he using me as his toy. Now again, I've never experienced ANY of this sort, But I do have it in my mind that I would like to give it a try and see if it's something for me. Since I'm so new though and don't even know about how any of this works, I would like someone to guide me through this. Very very slowly.

I hope this gives everyone sort of a better idea of what i'm searching of.


Total control - TPE (total power exchange)

Your whole post is pretty heavy duty fantasy. Except for the audience stuff.

OsideGirl gave you excellent advice. You're new and have intense fantasies - it'd be easy for a Dom to take advantage of you. That's why she suggested local groups - you can get an idea for who local has a good rep and who doesn't. Also, you can see all kinds of play in front of your eyes and see what turns you on and what doesn't.

Also - your fantasies are fine but I'd work up to them. A little bondage, a little spanking, etc., and build up from there.



Gauge -> RE: Hi! (9/20/2013 9:11:20 PM)

Greetings and Welcome to the forums.

Please heed the advice given to you because you are new to this and the Internet is basically a shark tank and females are wearing meat-suits, and if you are not careful you could really get involved with someone that you do not want to be.

Take your time, ask a ton of questions, don't be shy, we sure as hell are not, and get involved in your local scene. Learn Learn Learn Learn before you do much of anything.

I love your screen name. In the back of my head I am singing:

It's a Maserati, Maserati, Maserati...



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Hi! (9/20/2013 11:42:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MangoTango

You're very right, I'll explain myself better.

Again, I have no idea what the majority of these terms that are used around here, so I'll try to be as specific as I can to give a better clarification.

What I have fantasied about is someone completely controlling every aspect of my life, basically thinking for me if that makes any sense. Tying me up using me as His toy to play with abusing me with whips and making me beg for his cock. Having an audience as he using me as his toy. Now again, I've never experienced ANY of this sort, But I do have it in my mind that I would like to give it a try and see if it's something for me. Since I'm so new though and don't even know about how any of this works, I would like someone to guide me through this. Very very slowly.

I hope this gives everyone sort of a better idea of what i'm searching of.


PLEASE be for real in this and not another Gen Y blog-beatch wannabe journalist seeking (with gauranteed failure) to use a bdsm site as an easy ride to "published status", after the wrongful media attention given to 50 Shades of [plagiaristic] Crap.

If you're a serious Kinky Flower Unfolding her First Petals, it'll be a great thing. If this is another scenario of a person under 20 years of age thinking they'll "go undercover for an ulterior motive", you should know that all suh folks get caught out and none are clever enough to use a site like alt.com or others to get a cheap-easy e-book created and spruiked on some crappy late night National Public Radio Show, or mid-tier morning talk-show.

Here's hoping you're a delightful newb-istic wunderkind deserving radiant rainbows of welcome, and not some cl!tless sheister ranging the kink-sites attempting an easy publication score while being too lazy to know that everyone under 35 who has attempted that has failed.

Salud!



NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: Hi! (9/21/2013 11:11:26 PM)

and there's nothing stated in your profile as per any interests at all. it's like a "bot".

If you are trying to score a story or a profit generating blog entry, using interaction here, again, that will fail.

But I think you've moved on already, in classic Gen Y fashion.

best of luck.



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