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Disabled submissive X-post - 8/29/2013 10:17:33 PM

simg1f

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Greetings Sirs and Misses,

I have a question that i hope one or more of You can answer. I'm a quadriplegic and ventilator dependent submissive. I was curious if any felt if i could serve a man offline and in what ways (outside of sex)?

Thank you,

Sarah

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RE: Disabled submissive X-post - 8/29/2013 10:51:58 PM

Darkfeather

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ORIGINAL: simg1f

Greetings Sirs and Misses,

I have a question that i hope one or more of You can answer. I'm a quadriplegic and ventilator dependent submissive. I was curious if any felt if i could serve a man offline and in what ways (outside of sex)?

Thank you,

Sarah

Service is more of a mentality than an actual "act". So in that regard you can more than function in any way you and the one you serve agree on. It can be as simple as phrasing, or tasks that you can easily perform. As long as both of you agree on what you service is, then that is what will work

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RE: Disabled submissive X-post - 8/30/2013 12:43:15 AM

simg1f

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@Darkfeather

Thank you Sir.

Sarah

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RE: Disabled submissive X-post - 8/30/2013 1:04:00 AM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather
Service is more of a mentality than an actual "act". So in that regard you can more than function in any way you and the one you serve agree on. It can be as simple as phrasing, or tasks that you can easily perform. As long as both of you agree on what you service is, then that is what will work

Great post.

Certainly in my own sense of what it means to "serve" this is correct. Yes, in various contexts over the years I've had people serving me online in various ways. Usually that's because it's someone I came to like and there was some reason I wanted to help them... mentoring a new sub... helping a friend with some life issues... whatever. Once it was simply because I became friends with a sub from here and we got to talking a lot and... well... she's sub and I'm dom. It was never "service" the way that the Carol (my wife) serves me but that ought to be obvious. But I personally count any sort of obedience as service and I am both honored and flattered by it (from subs I respect). Genuine respect from someone I respect is always deeply humbling and flattering.

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RE: Disabled submissive X-post - 8/30/2013 2:10:43 AM

AaNiMaLl

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My first question is do you have any sensation? I like the idea of no sensation because I think therefore I am; I am a dreamer. So it isolates out all those physical factors and becomes pure unrestrained imagination.

I once had a girlfriend who was blind and that was interesting but being quadriplegic is next level.

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RE: Disabled submissive X-post - 8/30/2013 6:01:08 AM

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