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Help - 9/1/2013 6:20:46 PM

FreaKoFfThEcHaIn

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I really want to know more things I can do with my partner I just got into all this and I don't know much, besides what she has told me. Any help would be great.

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RE: Help - 9/1/2013 6:41:04 PM

angelikaJ

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It really depends on a few things - what interest you and what interests her?

This may help:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: Help - 9/1/2013 7:18:08 PM

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Since we can't read minds on what you two have done, what side of the kneel, if any, you two are on, what you are trying to achieve, etc...we wouldn't have a clue.

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RE: Help - 9/2/2013 4:40:14 AM

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Can you flesh your question out a little more, you haven't given us a lot to go on.

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RE: Help - 9/2/2013 9:40:35 AM

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I'd say look for a starter book and read through it together, something like Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns or Jay Wiseman's SM 101

Should give you plenty of ideas and some practical advice.

By reading it through together you can both give input as to what you like

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RE: Help - 9/2/2013 11:21:41 AM

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You don't have enough knowledge to even ask the question. Your profile appears to me that you are completely clueless. Soul's advice is sound. Order some books and start reading. The two Soul mentioned are both excellent, and easily available through sites like Amazon. Book knowledge is not experience, but the knowledge itself is enough to start pointing where you need to go next, and what to do to get there.

If you have a social nature, investigate whether there are local groups you can join. Munches and the like. I know that is hard for a lot of people though.

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RE: Help - 9/2/2013 11:33:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: FreaKoFfThEcHaIn

I really want to know more things I can do with my partner I just got into all this and I don't know much, besides what she has told me. Any help would be great.

Have wild crazy mad rabbit sex.Frequently. Hell,copiously.
Oh yeah, and talk. Lots

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