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MizzSpitfire -> RE: On Rimming (9/6/2013 12:07:10 AM)
While "rosebuds" are a whole different animal than what you refer to, what you do in bed has little or nothing to do with whether or not you are Dominant or submissive. Sex is sex. D/s is D/s. S & M is S & M. Each can entirely exist on it's own, for it's own sake, and provide it's own complete satisfaction without the others.

toiletcuck -> RE: On Rimming (9/6/2013 2:58:25 AM)
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benub3 -> RE: On Rimming (9/6/2013 3:01:19 AM)
Whilst I agree with Spitfire, in reality they more often than not co-exist.

benub3 -> RE: On Rimming (9/6/2013 3:06:42 AM)
Smartsub10, Vagina also harbours bacteria, UTIs are very common in women... so... should we not have oral sex ?

MistressDarkArt -> RE: On Rimming (9/6/2013 6:31:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: benub3 Smartsub10, Vagina also harbours bacteria, UTIs are very common in women... so... should we not have oral sex ? I worry less about the bacterial content of my vagina than I do about the yeast present in people's mouths; thus I don't allow oral sex. It is also not my preferred way to be stimulated. For me, oral sex is a guaranteed yeast infection, and possibly a UTI as well. Others may not be so sensitive.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: On Rimming (9/6/2013 6:32:58 PM)
PS: Welcome to the boards, benub3! [sm=welcomewave.gif]

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: On Rimming (9/7/2013 5:36:52 AM)
Scat play is a hard limit for me. It's become very popular in the last few years for Doms to want rimming of some sort but it's not something I'd ever consider. No matter how clean the ass is, you're still eating tiny particles of shit, and I just can't mentally resolve myself to that. The worst thing is that it's considered so normal by some Doms that they don't even mention it until you're already in the early stages of a relationship with them, and then they're all hurt and confused that it's a hard limit. Best just to be honest about it up front so that people can find compatibility in relationships.

RedMagic1 -> RE: On Rimming (9/7/2013 6:17:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 Scat play is a hard limit for me. It's become very popular in the last few years for Doms to want rimming of some sort but it's not something I'd ever consider. No matter how clean the ass is, you're still eating tiny particles of shit, and I just can't mentally resolve myself to that. The worst thing is that it's considered so normal by some Doms that they don't even mention it until you're already in the early stages of a relationship with them, and then they're all hurt and confused that it's a hard limit. Best just to be honest about it up front so that people can find compatibility in relationships. Maybe figure out something you could offer that would stimulate the area, and suggest that instead? I know if a lady I liked told me "no rimming" I'd be disappointed, but I do recognize there are small but real health risks. Maybe get warm soapy water, clean him there, and then kiss and nibble nearby without putting your mouth directly on the hole? Or google "prostate massage" for lots of info. If you said, "I won't use my mouth, but let me blow your mind with these other techniques," I bet your partners would be happy.

evesgrden -> RE: On Rimming (9/7/2013 9:00:52 AM)
saran wrap over the lubed ass/bud area and lick away no contact, plenty of sensation

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: On Rimming (9/7/2013 9:17:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt I worry less about the bacterial content of my vagina than I do about the yeast present in people's mouths; thus I don't allow oral sex. It is also not my preferred way to be stimulated. For me, oral sex is a guaranteed yeast infection, and possibly a UTI as well. Others may not be so sensitive. Yes, the suggestion of it from a complete stranger gives Me the absolute willies. Who the hell wants to deal with that worry? Do those who allow it check the guy's teeth and tongue, make him use mouthwash first?

Kana -> RE: On Rimming (9/7/2013 12:09:51 PM)
quote: No matter how clean the ass is, you're still eating tiny particles of shit, and I just can't mentally resolve myself to that. Which makes it degrading and disgusting. In other words, exactly why we like to have slaves do it. Huzzah!

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