Training a new sub with extremely dark sexual history, seeking advice from experienced Doms

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RoughWithRope -> Training a new sub with extremely dark sexual history, seeking advice from experienced Doms (9/2/2013 5:59:57 PM)
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Darkfeather -> RE: Training a new sub with extremely dark sexual history, seeking advice from experienced Doms (9/2/2013 6:59:09 PM)
And for the record, unless you have a degree in clinical psychology, you aren't the one to "fix" the girl. In fact, if she has any deep rooted psycosis as a result of her experiences, you might actually do more harm by messing around with her kinks. If you really want to help, back off and get her into serious therapy. Once she has HER life sorted out, then you can start in on the whips and chains

SweetAnise -> RE: Training a new sub with extremely dark sexual history, seeking advice from experienced Doms (9/2/2013 7:22:17 PM)
I tend to agree with Darkfeather....even if you have a clinical degree in psychology you are still NOT the one to help her. It sounds like she needs psychological help for her deep rooted issues. Something she seems to be trying to workout through play...IMPOSSIBLE. I don't care what dominant or submissive who may convince you otherwise. If you are really concerned about her you would stop playing with her and tell her to get some real professional help with a therapist; and you will not play with her until she is SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL with herself.

VideoAdminChi -> RE: Training a new sub with extremely dark sexual history, seeking advice from experienced Doms (9/2/2013 7:32:56 PM)
FR, This thread has been locked and a number of posts removed. Graphic descriptions of abuse that happened to minors is not allowed. OP - I CMailed your post to you - you may repost it if you remove the underage stuff and keep the discussion to events that happened after she turned 18.

VideoAdminChi -> RE: Training a new sub with extremely dark sexual history, seeking advice from experienced Doms (9/3/2013 10:36:51 AM)
FYI, another thread has been pulled for similar reasons.

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