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RE: difficulty with sub - 9/14/2013 6:12:34 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
To give you an example, if Carol wore her collar one day then denied it the next I'd simply take away the collar more or less permanently. Problem solved.

What I did in this event was to be as apathetic about the collar as the receiver. Very clearly, I said that If it wasn't important on one end, it wasn't going to be important to Me, either. If it's forgotten, refused, or any other thing, that's not like I'm going to be prompted to chase somebody around like a child and ensure that they wear it.

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RE: difficulty with sub - 9/15/2013 5:44:12 AM

PrincessDonna11

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Since the "Shades" series everyone wants to try one or the other roles...communication is the basis of understanding...

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RE: difficulty with sub - 9/15/2013 1:55:34 PM

angelikaJ

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I think you are going to find it like sinking into a very hot bathtub, deeper (and set, acclimate), ouch ouch ouch ouch, deeper (and set, and acclimate), ouch ouch ouch ouch, deeper (and set, and acclimate).

Really a pleasing and serene experience for the right type of woman, I should think.

Let her have chocolate once in a while.

And a glass of wine.

And soft music and candles.

And ignore her responses when she imitates the birds who babble at the brook.

If the relationship went from vanilla to D/s then I don't think ambivalence in moments is unusual.

OP,
I think the question is: how prepared are you to be patient?

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