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Surprise my Master :) - 9/4/2013 10:18:16 AM   
IronSub


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Status: offline 		I am now owned (well under consideration) by a Master for the first time ever. It is going well but I must stay discreet since I live with a girl (he knows all of this). I have been able to do all he has asked to far such as shaving, getting panties and more but want to do something more over the top and surprise him. He wants me to eventually be his sissy boi/gurl and I need some ideas of things I can do for free or a low cost for the time being to send him pics of. Thanks to anyone who replies!
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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 9/4/2013 1:38:37 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Does your girlfriend know about him?

If not, end the first relationship and then get into one with someone who has integrity. And yes, if she would be upset by your online activities, then it's cheating.

Why not tell her what you need and see if she would care to be your dominant?

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 9/4/2013 5:58:23 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Not many here are going to tell you that it's ok to cheat and lie to get your kinky itches scratched. So, what does your girlfriend think of this amazing new connection you've made?

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 9/4/2013 6:38:30 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Many "Masters" have learned exactly what to say and type to needy submissives to make the sub all hot and bothered. This does not mean that the "Master" is a dominant at all. It just means that the "Master" gets a real kick out of playing online with submissives who are too needy to realize they are being used.

"Under Consideration" means diddly squat in my book. It means you are giving up the chance to have a real relationship with a real person to wait around for some internet "Dominant" to play with you and make you into a fool.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 9/4/2013 6:46:29 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Not many here are going to tell you that it's ok to cheat and lie to get your kinky itches scratched. So, what does your girlfriend think of this amazing new connection you've made?



^^^^ This

And the fact that your "Master" knows you're lying to your GF means he lacks integrity as well.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 9/4/2013 11:56:32 PM   
SoulAlloy


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Status: offline 		Is the girl you live with your girlfriend? If so agree with above.

If not, well, without knowing your master have no idea what he'd enjoy. Look at his profile for kinks that he enjoys.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 12:02:27 AM   
staggeringwolf


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Status: offline 		If you do have a gf I suggest you move on. Cheating is cheating no matter the situation. You're not in a poly house hold so man up move on before you hurt people.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 12:28:44 AM   
WCossey


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Status: offline 		I first must ask, does the girl you are living with know? I am guessing not. Is she your girl friend? If yes to this I suggest you drop the "master/mistress" because that person is untrustworthy. If she is not your girl friend then I agree with Soulalloy that you should use there profile for ideas. For me it means more knowing it is just for me, something to show they are wanting to submit only to me. I hope this helps.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 4:44:03 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		This is all kinds of wrong. Since you say you want to send him pics, it sounds like this is an online thing.

So you're involved in a real life relationship with a flesh and blood girl that you're jeopardizing for this "Master".

1. No genuine Master would cause you to endanger your primary relationship so he can get cyber jollies.
2. You're sharing things with him that you're not sharing with her.

Look, figure out what you really want. Do you really want to become female and serve a man? Or do you really want to be masculine, with an occasional hour or so in women's clothing? Can you get this from your girlfriend, or will you have to negotiate with her that you'll go outside your relationship to get it WITH HER FULL KNOWLEDGE AND CONSENT?

Right now, you're looking at becoming single aside from some doofus who you've never met, who likes to call himself a Master but ain't one.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 4:59:01 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Surprise your master by showing some personal integrity and either letting your gf know what you're up to, or explaining to your master why you can't continue cheating with him.

Sorry, cyber relationships ARE cheating of a kind, and don't say good things about you two.

I'm sure part of the thrill is the secrecy and such, but how would *YOU* feel if she was doing this to you?

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:01:48 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		There are a lot of assumptions.

1. Is the woman you are living with merely a room mate and you want to be discreet out of respect for her? Is she your girlfriend and you want to be discreet because this is a cheating kind of thing?

The answer to that is going to create very different responses.

2. This "master" of yours. Is he someone you know in real life or is he someone you know on line? If he is real life, have you checked him out with the community to figure out if he is safe to play these kinds of games with? If he is online, have you checked him out - gotten his drivers license info, made sure he is who he says he is? Have you talked on a video chat to make sure he is who he says he is?

3. Are you gay and planning to have a romantic relationship with this fellow? If so, you may want to consider doing more date-y things to get some clearer boundaries about how this is all going.

4. "Under consideration" - since you of course also have HIM under consideration, how has he proven himself to you? How has he shown you that he is worth trusting and receiving what could be damaging photos of you? Have you gotten to know him in a variety of circumstances and not just the "hanky spanky" arena? What kind of man is he? How does he handle his anger / frustrations / disappointments? What kind of people does he hang out with? What are his intentions with this relationship?


You may well think these questions are silly, but someone I know showed some photos to a family member. Now there is a divide in that family, a heart wrenching, painful divide. I know these people PERSONALLY. Do you know you can trust this guy?

Since your profile is now not found, perhaps you have disappeared. The cynical side of things might wonder if you were just trying to get some kinky ideas in order to have a good laugh at the folks here or to get some ideas while having some personal fun time. if that is the case, ah well Perhaps someone else will see these questions and think it through. You might want to look for the phrase "sub frenzy" - it sounds like you are in the throes of it.

good luck,
sunshine






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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:07:40 AM   
shadowborn61


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Status: offline 		I love you all!!!
I was cheated on once and believe me it was not a fun time i even attempted suicide.
So i have no sympathy for someone who is or wants to cheat especially when they get hurt and want to cry about it later,
OP
Either end the relationship with your GF or be honest for a change and tell her about what you are into, what you want and need. She may surprise you and be down with everything you are into but she may not but at least you will be an honest person.
This world is too full of liars and cheats just look at American politics you do not need to add yourself to the list.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:11:58 AM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		Sub Frenzy can make one super stupid. Throwing all common sense and integrity out the window. It feels pretty terrible when you make a lot of rash decisions. Think of your girlfriend and what trouble it can cause before you continue.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:12:17 AM   
shadowborn61


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Status: offline 		While i agree with most everything you said even i would not give my drivers license info out to someone on the internet.
That is just asking to have your identity stolen.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

There are a lot of assumptions.

2. This "master" of yours. Is he someone you know in real life or is he someone you know on line? If he is real life, have you checked him out with the community to figure out if he is safe to play these kinds of games with? If he is online, have you checked him out - gotten his drivers license info, made sure he is who he says he is? Have you talked on a video chat to make sure he is who he says he is?

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:12:18 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		Well you could grow a pair and come clean with your girlfriend. I am sure the honestly would be a real surprise to him.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:30:30 AM   
Toysinbabeland


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Well you could grow a pair and come clean with your girlfriend. I am sure the honestly would be a real surprise to him.



This.

And if I may, it's never a great thing to follow one who encourages deceit.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 2:33:20 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		The thread was started last September and the OP has never been back, I think things are moot.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 2:37:32 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I am betting she surprised him at the door and in a fit of fight or flight, he has cakked her.

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RE: Surprise my Master :) - 2/26/2014 6:26:15 PM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

The thread was started last September and the OP has never been back, I think things are moot.



No shit, didn't even look at the date

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