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Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 12:47:29 AM

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I'm not wanting to do a full change where I would get a vagina, but I'm extremely interested in getting a few surgeries and going on hormones...

I'm kind of a switch bitch at heart...

But I have a problem. One moment, I'm a cum craving whore, taking dildos in my ass, cock in my mouth, lipstick on, heels on, cage on my clitty, clips on my nips, someone is shoving another phallus into my hole, moaning, groaning, begging for more, swallowing cum, the whispers of what a whore I am in my ear push me over the edge and make me cum. Once I've lost my load, suddenly I have no desire to be fem, or female. I want to go back to being a masculine ladies man, well spoken, well rounded, and a leader amongst peers. I feel that someone such as myself should steer clear of any permanent alterations, due to these post coital feelings. Am I correct in thinking that? I never feel more excited, or elated than when I'm this female persona, but I lose all desire for it after I've lost my load...Help? Advice?

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 1:15:16 AM

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Yeah. I think you have the right idea with staying away from permanent mods n surgeries.

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 2:04:12 AM

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And also getting a sex change from what i understand isn't easy, you have to go to a dr they haveto recomend pychological testing or counsoling or something and t hen that person has t o recomend it or something like that , and no body i sgoin gto back or support the srs or changes you want if they're only an interest while you are horny.

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 6:08:34 AM

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Nope.

In my experience, trans people transition because they get the overwhelming feeling that they were born into the wrong body. They've felt that way since they were three or four years old, and have been miserable being in the wrong body. Surgery and hormones eventually corrected that, but frequently at the expense of family relationships, jobs, etc., not to mention the money. It is not a sexual thing at all.

You on the other hand seem to think of it as a temporary state you like to roleplay into. Your ideal situation would be a painless, instant method to change genders in the middle of sex, and then back again. No such animal, sorry.

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 7:36:00 AM

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for transgender people it's about life not sex. you are about sex not life.

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 10:03:28 AM

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I doubt any reputable surgeon would work on you if you told him what you've said above. It reads like a page from a Black Lace book. Surgery would, in my mind, be the wrong thing for you altogether.

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 10:06:32 AM

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It's typical male sub stuff. Once they orgasm they lose the mindset. You don't want to transition, you want to be kept in long term chastity instead.

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RE: Sex change, or no sex change. - 9/5/2013 12:47:50 PM

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I get where you're coming from however having said that from I see what you're feeling is more of a fetish more than a need and strongly discourage any permit changes to yourself. I also think you would well advised to seek out a professional gender counselor in your area to help you get to the root of this desire and what it means for you and your lifestyle choices before doing anything that you might regret later. It's important to remember that sex is between the legs and gender is between the ears once you figure out which is more important to you the rest gets easier to figure out from there. Best of luck in your journey of self discovery but get a map first it's much safer that way.

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