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New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/16/2004 12:45:12 PM

slvtoplayfulman

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I have been with him for 2 years, he has trained me, he has mentored me, he has helped me build up my self esteme and he has inspired me to become a complete woman. When I met him I wanted to live only for him, now I look forward to lots of vanilla activities, I love my job, I love to travel and do all sorts of things. What I am seeking is ideas of something I can do for him, he is not extreme but loves it when I surprise him especially when I mix the d's with some type of role play so give me some innovative ideas, our anniversary is coming up and I want to surprise him.

I remain slvtoplayfulman or on this site xxxplayfulxxx

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/16/2004 3:46:14 PM

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quote:

What I am seeking is ideas of something I can do for him, he is not extreme but loves it when I surprise him especially when I mix the d's with some type of role play so give me some innovative ideas,

Not sure how innovative this is, but a few ideas. At most sex stores you can purchase coupon books with coupons for differect sexual things to try. Also one time for my Dom's birthday i gave him a gift bag with whip cream, chocolate sauce and cherries along with a gift certificate to our local sex store. We had some fun with that.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/16/2004 9:40:09 PM

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At most sex stores you can purchase coupon books with coupons for differect sexual things to try.

Great idea! But why go to a sex store for this? Make it more personal by creating your own coupon book with lots of coupons that you make yourself with little things you know your Master/Dom will enjoy. They don't have to be major events just some little things that you know will bring a smile to his face.

(Thanks for the idea proudsub! I will be leaving this suggestion in my sub's mailbox as a hint. LOL)

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/16/2004 10:15:25 PM

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quote:

(Thanks for the idea proudsub! I will be leaving this suggestion in my sub's mailbox as a hint. LOL)

You're welcome, always happy to be of service.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/17/2004 12:56:47 PM

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thank you for the idea, the coupon book may become part of what I do, maybe even sooner than our anniversary. To give you some idea of his imagination, I had been bothering him for a collar I could wear in public for awhile, this was a little more than a year ago. He kept saying he would think about it, and would joke that maybe he would get the dog a new collar and give me the old one. Well one night about a week after he returned from a business trip to China he sat me down very sternly, a little scary since he is not like that and said I had a choice, I could have the collar the dog was wearing or I could have a collar he made for me himself out of aluminum foil. I started to cry until the dog came up to me and put his head in my lap. He was wearing a gold choker with my name emblazened on it. I took the collar the dog had and now wear it proudly whenever Master wants me to. He even bought me an evening gown to go with it. Don't worry I bought the dog a nice new collar and a toy too.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/17/2004 1:03:21 PM

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Are you looking for sexual ideas or service oriented ideas? I got lots of the latter. I'll leave the former to the others that have posted delicious ideas!

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/17/2004 1:04:28 PM

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Damn...posted in the wrong place. Hope you don't mind a Mistress chimed in. LOL

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/17/2004 1:54:25 PM

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quote:

Damn...posted in the wrong place. Hope you don't mind a Mistress chimed in. LOL

You are welcome to post on any forums.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/18/2004 6:39:28 PM

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My Little Slave gave me a coupon book this evening as we finished dinner. Somewhat surprised I asked where she got this wonderful idea and she told me from this forum. Thank you to the Proudsub who suggested it to her. Now I will get off the forum so that she may get more ideas, and for those reading...she is looking for both service and sexual ideas, more the former as she has a very good imagination on the latter.

Thanks again for helping her.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/18/2004 7:24:09 PM

merrymasochist

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there's lots of things you can do depending on his likes and dislikes...

1. foot massages
2. back/body massages
3. if he likes ropework, surprise him with some new body ties
4. give a roman bath where you wash him, dry him and generally pamper him from head to toes
5. (one i enjoy) give him a backscratch with using nothing but your tits covered in clothespins
6. write him a letter telling him how his presence in your life has made you a better person and thank him
7. write him a story about your last session and include all those lovely ramdom thoughts we get that they don't get to hear...
8. write him a list of all the things you love, admire and find sexy in him
9. if he likes being rough, go to the goodwill and put together a tear-off outfit that he can rip and rend to his heart's content
10. if you are a craft-type, make a new toy for him to play with on you

the above is just a short off the top of my head list... there's a million things you can do for special occasions and every-day things to surprise him...
good luck...

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/18/2004 8:10:02 PM

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Thank you to the Proudsub who suggested it to her.

You're most welcome. Did she buy one or write her own? If she wrote her own can you share some of them please?

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/19/2004 9:15:22 PM

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quote:

What I am seeking is ideas of something I can do for him, he is not extreme but loves it when I surprise him especially when I mix the d's with some type of role play so give me some innovative ideas, our anniversary is coming up and I want to surprise him.

Writing an erotic short story or poem for someone can be a nice way of commemorating a special occasion. Role playing clothing or gear could be a lot of fun (and a great excuse to buy a really nice slave outfit :)

~Ophelia

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/22/2004 5:39:20 PM

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Wow so many suggestions, thank you so much. My man is going to be very happy. I gave him one small coupon book that I made myself and the last coupon in it is for another book on our anniversary.

Proud Sub asked what was in my first little book. This is what I gave him

1. He loves to cook but hates to clean and he loved me being totally naked but knows at the end of a weekday I am sometimes too tired to play when I first get home, so the first coupon was an instant request for me to Disrobe IMMEDIATELY upon my return home on any weekday and to do all the cleaning after dinner and to remain that way until the next morning.

2. The second one was more sexual, he loves being orally serviced in the morning, its serves as a really nice alarm so it is a coupon he can give me the night before and I will wake up early and suck on him in the morning until he wakes up.

3. A coupon for me to walk the dogs on the first really cold or snowy morning, which in Boston is very possible. He loves those dogs but sometimes he just does not want to venture outside.

4. A coupon for a sensual full body massage, he sometimes needs to relax and let me just take care of him.

5. A coupon for a romantic desert, he loves to play with his food and he loves whipcream and being fed cherries and he loves dripping ice cream on my breasts and licking them off. I suspect that will be the first one he chooses.

6. A coupon for another coupon book.

Oh and I presented the book to him while wearing my new high black boots, a short skirt and a skimpy top, just what he likes.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/22/2004 7:34:11 PM

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quote:

Proud Sub asked what was in my first little book. This is what I gave him

Thank you for sharing, those are great, do you mind if i borrow some of them next Valentine's day?

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/24/2004 8:52:11 AM

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Sharing and getting ideas from others is what this all about, of course you can use my ideas. And maybe your Man will do something for you, I was not on yesterday because my Man Gene surprised me yesterday morning. First my supervisor called me first thing to say I had the day off, then Gene told me to dress casually and go downstairs when I was ready. There was a car service that took me to a spa in downtown boston where I spent the day getting all pretty for the holiday. I feel so good, I cant wait for him to come home on Sunday so I can give myself to him again and again.

Have a great holiday all, I am going to my sister's tonight for the whole weekend.

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 11/24/2004 10:29:17 AM

proudsub

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Man Gene surprised me yesterday morning. First my supervisor called me first thing to say I had the day off, then Gene told me to dress casually and go downstairs when I was ready. There was a car service that took me to a spa in downtown boston where I spent the day getting all pretty for the holiday. I feel so good, I cant wait for him to come home on Sunday so I can give myself to him again and again.

WOW!!! What a nice surprise.

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"You are entitled to your own opinions but not your own facts"--Alan Greenspan

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RE: New Ideas for Serving My Dom - 12/5/2004 2:02:01 AM

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greetings ....Awesome & congratulations on finding your Dom!
relate all the way for I too found my perfect Dom, now under collar of consideration, most proud and very honored to say.
Wolfsbabygirlz =)

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