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Rasciallymisty -> RE: Sub/slave looking for mistress (9/6/2013 5:45:00 AM)
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Hello and welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which seek. I offer all newbie the same advice...so here it is......
1- Your profile is lacking!!!! Make your profile one that the Domme's will want to read. Tell them more on what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes. Also most do not like third person references it drives them nuts, sort of like fingernails on a chalk board. Maybe read a few other subs profiles and see how they have wrote theirs and maybe take some ideas to use in yours.
2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. The only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.
3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.
4- Your picture is good so not much to say other than if you add others, stay away from nude pics as most women really rather not see them.
5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.
6- Your local munches might also be a good place to meet others of the lifestyle.
Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.
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