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RE: Strap-ons - 9/14/2013 6:48:34 AM

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Well it's normal for the thousands of straight women who have anal sex but apparently when it's a guy who is bent over it's a major deal and requires hours of discussion. Next time use more lube.

lol This!! ^^^^

I've always wondered why it's considered normal for women to receive anal and not men. An asshole is an asshole is an asshole.

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Because you are a Dom, and your receivers are submissive males. This is beating a dead horse I know but being with a straight dominant male even though I am a switch, he is my husband and I would loathe the day he ever wanted me to put him in what I see as a sexually submissive vulnerable position. Total turn off. Luckily for me it is a non issue but most straight males especially dominant ones have no desire to be reamed in the ass by their woman. It is not just a sexual act it is psychologically to me the antithesis of what I see as a dominant straight male. Could not and would not comply.

That is an interesting take on it. For me it was always just fucking. I do remember someone saying I shouldn't fuck my mistress because that was a submissive position for her to be in. She shot him down pretty quick. I guess it just depends on your point of view.

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RE: Strap-ons - 9/14/2013 10:26:15 AM

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When did the "D/s Relationship Dynamics Police" decide that somehow FUCKING is off limits for Mistresses??? Back in the '70s or '80s? Later than that? The implication being that deriving pleasure from any & all forms of intercourse is not effing Dommish enough. No wonder newbie and not so newbie subs are brainwashed into believing in the FemDom world that Dommes are merely Fetish/Kink Delivery Systems for them.

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That is an interesting take on it. For me it was always just fucking. I do remember someone saying I shouldn't fuck my mistress because that was a submissive position for her to be in. She shot him down pretty quick. I guess it just depends on your point of view.

For those who consider this Topping from the bottom, whatever you and your Mistress agreed to do together during your intimate play scenes which was Safe, Sane and Consensual was really none of anybody else's freaking business either. We aren't talking Hard Limits here.

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RE: Strap-ons - 9/23/2013 6:34:32 PM

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most straight males especially dominant ones have no desire to be reamed in the ass by their woman.

There are a good chunk of women who have absolutely no desire to be ass-fucked either.

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RE: Strap-ons - 9/23/2013 11:19:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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Well it's normal for the thousands of straight women who have anal sex but apparently when it's a guy who is bent over it's a major deal and requires hours of discussion. Next time use more lube.

lol This!! ^^^^

I've always wondered why it's considered normal for women to receive anal and not men. An asshole is an asshole is an asshole.

NBMG

Because you are a Dom, and your receivers are submissive males. This is beating a dead horse I know but being with a straight dominant male even though I am a switch, he is my husband and I would loathe the day he ever wanted me to put him in what I see as a sexually submissive vulnerable position. Total turn off. Luckily for me it is a non issue but most straight males especially dominant ones have no desire to be reamed in the ass by their woman. It is not just a sexual act it is psychologically to me the antithesis of what I see as a dominant straight male. Could not and would not comply.

Ass licking though?

Tongue insertion?

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RE: Strap-ons - 9/24/2013 6:42:01 PM

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Dang, I must have been moving in the Greek yogurt, as opposed to the French vanilla-flavored crowd, because I've never encountered this objection.*

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most straight males especially dominant ones have no desire to be reamed in the ass by their woman.

There are a good chunk of women who have absolutely no desire to be ass-fucked either.

* Of course in those days, it only went as far as digital penetration with guys, I should state for the record. I wasn't role-playing Nurse Ratchett from "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest," after all!

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