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"His" - 11/16/2004 2:08:25 PM   
willing2serve


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Status: offline 		As a submissive, when do you become "His"? If you start seeing each other exclusively, are you "His"? If he calls you His cunt, are you "His"? If you have so many play sessions, are you "His"? Before you wear his collar, are you "His"? Are you only "His" when you wear his collar? When you give him orgasm control, are you "His"? At what point in a relationship, do you consider yourself owning someone or being owned?
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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 2:15:51 PM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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Status: offline 		When He says so...........................





Given that you have agreed to His terms.

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 2:19:05 PM   
darkinshadows


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Sweet smiles to You.

I am sure You receive 101 ways you will be 'His'... The reality is that only You and He will know when you are truely 'His'...
... when there is no need for explainations, You are 'His'.

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...i surrender to gravity and the unknown...

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 2:23:38 PM   
blushes4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: INSIDEYOURMIND

When He says so...........................





Given that you have agreed to His terms.



well said.

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 4:17:56 PM   
velvetvixen


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Status: offline 		I was His long before I ever wore a collar. Master made it very clear when I came to be His, although I don't actually remember it being said.

When you are His, you won't have to ask.

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 7:06:47 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		When you submit to him or her. People cannot just take you. That is called kidnapping.
The lifestyle is about power exchange. So, when you're ready..and you give yourself to the Dominant and not a second before.

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 7:15:20 PM   
theroebabe


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I would have to say in my last relationship i was his as i felt i was his even thought i was never collared.

So you are his when you feel it in your being, and he will know it too.


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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 7:46:24 PM   
Nvernilla


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Status: offline 		agree with whenever he says so but I have seen guys who just assumed this without asking too we 're all different I suppose

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 7:59:16 PM   
conflicted


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Status: offline 		i knew for sure when He first pulled my head back by my hair and whispered in my ear "Who owns you? Who do you belong to?"
i didnt need to phone a friend for the answer either
oooooh gives me a tingle just thinking about it!!

n

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RE: "His" - 11/16/2004 8:04:45 PM   
willing2serve


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Status: offline 		To conflicted and everyone else....The moment you knew you were "His" was it early in the relationship or later on? Thank you all for your insight

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RE: "His" - 11/17/2004 12:31:43 AM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		In my opinion you are HIS when He puts a collar on you..
not when you ask for it.. nor beg for it . but when HE puts it on you.

Until then You are Yourself and you have not made that commitment to them and they have not accepted it.

I can agree on a "protective" collar but that does not mean You are his. It just means that someone else is watching out for YOU.

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RE: "His" - 11/17/2004 10:30:41 AM   
velvetvixen


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Status: offline 		It was early on in the relationship.

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RE: "His" - 11/17/2004 12:20:03 PM   
honeybee462002


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When Master whispered in my ear You are mine and no one elses the heat that raced through me told me this is my One..







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RE: "His" - 11/17/2004 12:21:16 PM   
honeybee462002


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Status: offline 		it was early on i knew plain and simple


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RE: "His" - 11/17/2004 1:11:57 PM   
wetrope


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From: GATINEAU, PQ
Status: offline 		Signs you are his: (at least one of the following)
when he tells u, when he gives u the collar, when u give urself wholly to him and he acknowledges what u have given him.

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RE: "His" - 11/20/2004 2:18:07 PM   
masteroffire


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From: Yukon, Oklahoma
Status: offline 		As has already been mentioned, I would say whenever he says... And definitely when you accept the collar... However that only my opinion...


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RE: "His" - 11/20/2004 2:55:52 PM   
Masterandslave


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Status: offline 		I became his the day he accepted my submission.

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RE: "His" - 11/20/2004 3:10:33 PM   
willing2serve


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Status: offline 		All of the answers have been great...Thank you..In reading all of your posts I am believing now that it is a gradual thing of giving yourself over to him, slowly becoming "His"....instead of one marked moment....and the the collar being the ultimate degree of ownership once that metamorphosis takes place.

As I have said, I am very new in the lifestyle and very new in a relationship, but since the initial post I felt a very brief moment of what most of you were talking about. I was sitting naked at His feet, as he was sharing something intimate with me and this firm handed Dom was lightly stroking my back, at that moment I felt like "His". An awesome feeling...I would love to know from the Doms and Masters, what is a moment when she felt like "Yours".

Respectfully,
Willing2serve1

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RE: "His" - 11/20/2004 5:37:34 PM   
kiki blue


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Status: offline 		For some, putting the collar on is just a formality, an outward recognition of what's already in place. The collar doesn't create the relationship, it just formalises it. At least IMO.

Denise

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RE: "His" - 11/22/2004 4:01:32 AM   
liljoy


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Status: offline 		i'm with kiki on this. After 3 years together... well almost 3 years. i have not yet been collared. i am still however His. i can't honestly say there was one moment that i knew suddenly i was His. i can say that after 3 years of being friends before we got together it was not long after we did get together that i felt i was His

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