Englishrose24 -> RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them (9/14/2013 5:12:06 AM)
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AMEN!!!!!! quote:
ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS For the record, time wasters are those who PLEDGE themselves to a Domme, swear they want to commit, spend days/weeks building a relationship and saying they want to meet...but when it comes time to bring the relationship to real life they POOF or make some excuse (i.e. "my friend's dad died and I need to be there for her"). I have known several very nice Dommes who've grown attached to a sub but were actually stood up at restaurants etc. because the guys chickened out. I've even had a couple Myself change their tune after I offered to meet them for a friendly lunch. Many men are on here just to lead others on so they can have their fantasies, with no intention of meeting face to face. The only way to AVOID it (if, as you say, it's the Domme's fault for ALLOWING Her time to be wasted), is to REQUIRE TRIBUTE UP FRONT to prove true intent before allowing communications....but then you all whine if She does THAT. I respond to your complaint of "aggressive Dommes are after me" by saying, NO ONE CAN ABUSE YOU UNLESS YOU LET THEM. CollarMe has a 'REPORT' feature for profiles that have slanderous comments, as well as 'BLOCK' and 'HIDE PROFILE'. They are there for a REASON. I suggest you get familiar with them. --MM
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