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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:00:42 AM

punisher440

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ORIGINAL: john1001

As for blocking me
that is your loss
and it is very cowardly to block someone
many dommes have told me they agree with me on that also
with all due respect mistress

if you have guts and a strong skin
you don't have to run..block someone..

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You don't have a brain to understand the truth here
I am hiding all your posts
you make no sense and
I don't need your crap

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time to hide your posts
bye

Well hello coward...nice to see you showing your true colors....

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:01:04 AM

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Well it was there 6 months ago
They made it and told me to type in
JOHN1002
AND IT WAS THERE..
I did report it
and maybe they got rid of it
but their blogs still exist..
They don't tell u on here
what the result was when you report someone..
I could even name the dommes on here who are doing this but I won't..

I could give you their names and you can ask them if they did it
I am sure they will tell you yes cuz they want everyone to see it..
If CM did get rid of it
Those dommes are still on here.
They should have dismissed them off this site
for falsifying info about people and creating a phony site
to hurt and discredit someone
But I know they are still on this site
cuz they contacted me 2 days ago..

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:33:29 AM

john1001

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Seen the phony profile of me with my own eyes
don't make comments about something
that you know nothing about
ask me first before you go on a phony rant
about the situation..
thank you..

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:35:23 AM

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So you made this thread to rant about some false profile that may have existed 6 months ago. Wow. Little late wouldn't you say?
No one reading the thread would know if that was actually true or not that the profile existed, all we'd have is your word. Which quite frankly, isn't worth much.

Then there are these supposed blogs that you haven't given any links to that I saw, so it's not sure if they exist either. No, you saying they do isn't proof, people on these forums back up what they say with actual links so that everyone can see what they're talking about.

People don't get blacklisted at anyone else's say so without proof taken to the correct department. If this is such a horrific matter to you, then you probably should have expended this effort following the proper channels for reporting these terrible Dommes. If you haven't done it, then making this thread is crap. No one here can help you as was pointed out, but we'll watch and laugh.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:40:56 AM

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you don't listen very well
I SAID THE BLOGS STILL EXIST TODAY OF ME
THAT ARE EVEN FAR WORSE THAN THIS PROFILE
WHICH WAS BAD ENOUGH..
THEY CONTACTED ME 2 DAYS AGO AND SAID IT IS NOT OVER..
YOU REALLY HAVE A PROBLEM GRASPING WHAT IS GOING ON
KEEP THIS UP AND I WILL HIDE ALL YOUR POSTS ALSO
I NEED INTELLIGENT PEOPLE TO DISCUSS THIS WITH
I know the names of the dommes who have done this on here
that is evidence enough missy..
I SAID THEY WON'T TELL ME WHERE THE BLOGS ARE
BUT THEY SAID THEY EXIST..
UNDERSTAND NOW?

DID I ASK FOR YOUR HELP?
NOOOOOOOOOOO

YOUR WORD ISN'T WORTH ANYTHING EITHER

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:44:40 AM

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So why are you wasting your time on these people.
Make a new profile, close the old one and it won't matter.

But pick a different screen name, not john3. Topbeatlefan or marathoner, something that talks about things you are passionate about.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:46:05 AM

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My picture is on there
I can't change my face
new profile would not matter

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:48:49 AM

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Where are the links to these blogs? Your thread is supposedly based on how badly you're being treated by some other people and you've given no proof that it's happening.

Where's your proof? Post it on this thread, within forum guidelines of course.

People can say anything they like. Back up what you're saying.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 9:51:01 AM

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how can u do that when they won't let me know where these blogs are
ARE U LISTENING AT ALL?
GOD !!!!!!
If I can prove it I would
sometimes you get abused and you can't prove it
Many murderers get away with it because of that reality..
Happens in life

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 10:02:04 AM

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I find it interesting you say Domme whin about you not giving money. I looked at your profile and you do indeed look familiar. Could it be you are on my block list??? I have no interest in your money but if you want to give it is all the better for me. You keep stating that what you say s true then why argue when someone makes a point about not backing up your rants with proof. There could be a reason why you are a target, you are too needy maybe a vanilla relationship would work better for you.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 10:04:42 AM

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OK, OP. You've got two different issues here. First things first. You have to understand that any activity that happens on other sites or personal blogs has no recourse on CM. If Joe Shmoe exchanges emails with Me on this site, doesn't like what I have to say, and goes over to another site to bitch about it, that's not the responsibility of CM and CM doesn't have any grounds to remove a person from *this* site for what is done elsewhere. What happens on other sites is not the domain of CM and it's like trying to take your complaint about your problems with your Dell computer over to Toshiba and demand that Toshiba fulfill your warranty agreement that you had with Dell.

What CM does have power over is the stuff that happens on CM. That would include stuff like creating a profile that specifically was meant to impersonate you and conducting activity that violates ToS. The profile being visible to other members isn't the key to this one. However, the account actually does have to exist and the Support staff have to do their thing to squash it.

A couple of years ago, I had this problem. There was a poster here on the boards that got herself moderated and blamed Me for the decision that the site had made about her. She specifically created alternate accounts with a one letter change in the screen name to make people think it was Me and started sending emails to a number of forum participants. She wrote emails to Me, too, because she thought I had some kind of pull around here to lift her suspension, and that I should ask the Mods to revoke her moderated status. At the time, I had several people write to Me under My real screen name to ask Me if I knew this was going on and I asked those who had run across this person through their email to report these activities through the site, and the problem was taken care of in a relatively short amount of time.

The thing about it is, you have to participate and assist for this problem and writing a thread about time wasting probably isn't going to cut it. You have to show some proof rather than a rant thread. If you have the emails, it shouldn't be terribly difficult to make a copy of them and forward them on to Rho (who has already been on this thread with offers to help) so that the problem can be eliminated. Other forum participants can't really do much for you unless they have interacted with the 'fake' profile.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 10:08:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001

how can u do that when they won't let me know where these blogs are
ARE U LISTENING AT ALL?
GOD !!!!!!
If I can prove it I would
sometimes you get abused and you can't prove it
Many murderers get away with it because of that reality..
Happens in life

So.... If I read this right, you are telling us that you don't know where they are?
You must have some idea of what was written in those blogs - Google it!!
If you don't know any of the content but just someone's word for it, they are scaremongering.
That tells me you're taking someone else's word that they actually exist - with NO PROOF.

And here you are, spouting that we should take YOUR word for the fact that they even exist.
Then you go off on a flounce when we all say exactly what you're asking us to believe.
For most people, anywhere, no proof means it just didn't happen.

Get real and GROW THE FUCK UP.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 10:23:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: john1001

Well it was there 6 months ago
They made it and told me to type in
JOHN1002
AND IT WAS THERE..
I did report it
and maybe they got rid of it
but their blogs still exist..
They don't tell u on here
what the result was when you report someone..
I could even name the dommes on here who are doing this but I won't..

I could give you their names and you can ask them if they did it
I am sure they will tell you yes cuz they want everyone to see it..
If CM did get rid of it
Those dommes are still on here.
They should have dismissed them off this site
for falsifying info about people and creating a phony site
to hurt and discredit someone
But I know they are still on this site
cuz they contacted me 2 days ago..

Clarity:
One thing that does not happen btw: is the site does not send out any kind of documentation saying so-and-so reported you.

If you haven't actually seen the blogs, then how do you know that in reality they exist?
My guess is they don't exist at all, and if they do there is so little traffic to them that no real damage can be done.

The procedure for dealing with people on here who are harassing you (you said they contacted you again recently) is to report them (report the email) and then block them.

I actually recommend hiding your profile for awhile, that way they can't look you up.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 10:27:49 AM

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John... seriously Dude- get a life. You sound like a whiney crybaby.
The screen name is gone, the blogs are gone, and I doubt ANYBODY but you knew or cared they were ever there.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 10:51:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: john1001

You don't have a brain to understand the truth here

What incredible irony.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 12:14:22 PM

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There's a $5 charge for whining.

You may pay through your PayPal.

You're welcome.

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 12:47:46 PM

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 1:26:56 PM

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time to hide your posts STUPID !!!!!!!!!!!
BYE

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RE: No one can waste your time unless you let them - 9/8/2013 1:30:28 PM

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