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why am i having trouble finding a dominate TS here - 9/7/2013 10:16:01 AM   
lilmoe


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Mistress's I am wondering why I can not get no hits or messages. I posted real pics of myself but it seems that it is based on looks. I not all that I am a litttle over wieght bot I am obedient and would really like to be dominated by a Ts. How can I find one here. Submissively yours lilmoe
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RE: why am i having trouble finding a dominate TS here - 9/7/2013 10:21:11 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Well..first stop trying so hard..smells of desperation. I am not a domme nor am I a TV, but I am a woman and no one wants someone who is not a little selective... Also, you have been here 2 days. Many of these subs are around for a year before connecting. If you are so desperate...I suggest a pro.

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RE: why am i having trouble finding a dominate TS here - 9/7/2013 10:50:55 AM   
DarkSteven


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Hi, moe. Welcome to reality.

Your idea was that you post a profile asking for a TS mistress to feminize you, and the offers would start rolling in. Not realistic.

1. There are way more male subs than female Tops/Dommes.
2. Out of all the Dommes, very few of them are transgendered.
3. You're expecting them to come to you. Try making the contacts yourself.
4. You want to be feminized. That and cuckolding and scat are probably the hardest fetishes for a man to get indulged because the ratio of eager men to willing women is so high.
5. Your profile uses the word "shemale", which most TSs consider insulting.
6. Your profile describes you as a walking fetish. It says nothing about you as a person except that you're a veteran.

So:

1. Rewrite your profile. Describe yourself as a person. What are your hobbies?
2. In your pics, put clothes on. And smile.
3. Do the contacting yourself. In the first line of the search function, you can specify easily that you're looking for trans Dominants with no geographic requirement.
4. Learn the lingo.

transgender is a messy term which addresses both crossdressers and transvestites (CDs/TVs), which are people who dress as the opposite genders for a temporary sexual charge and then go back to their normal gender; and transsexuals, which are people that get no sexual gratification, but simply want to change their born body gender to align with the gender in their brain. Many people confuse them. To make matters more confusing, TSs usually start off crossdressing, so there’s no simple binary. TSs frequently use the term “trans” for TSs only, making things murkier. A cis person is someone who is born one gender with no desire to change (i.e., the opposite of trans). Transsexuals generally progress from crossdressing to hormonal treatment, at which point they’re considered pre-op. If they have their genitals reassigned (sexual reassignment surgery or SRS), then they’re post-op. If they decide to never have SRS, they’re sometimes called non-op.

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RE: why am i having trouble finding a dominate TS here - 9/7/2013 6:58:57 PM   
lizi


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You've given it all of 3 days. Understand that there aren't a lot of TS Mistresses out there, and there are a lot of male submissives looking for action. If someone did look at your profile, they'd likely be turned off by the misspellings and the focus on yourself. It's just really not going to happen with what you've put forth so far. Take the other suggestions given to you and be prepared to do some work and you might get lucky.

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RE: why am i having trouble finding a dominate TS here - 9/7/2013 7:07:41 PM   
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Per the guidelines of the forums: "Please do not start a duplicate or similar thread if there is an active thread on the subject already or was fairly recently".


http://www.collarchat.com/m_4539734/tm.htm

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