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Before or after? - 9/7/2013 12:03:13 PM

EasyE

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Which one do you like better? Looking for some female sub's input...

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 12:17:55 PM

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ok so the choice is before (with hairy chest) vs after (hairless but the start of manboobs?).. or are we supposed to be looking at your facial expressions- before (split personality?) vs (evil?)..

hmmm.. I just cant decide..

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 12:53:45 PM

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I'm not sure if you mean which photo is better to use, or just the hair on the chest.
If you're looking for which photo, I don't particularly like the "selfies" in the mirror so I'd say neither.
If your referring to before (hairy chest) to after (not-so-hairy chest), I'd go with the latter but that's personal preference. Some women prefer the hair.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 1:00:45 PM

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I'm afraid I don't like either picture.

I like my 'potential' dom to be fully clothed until we decide we want to move the relationship forward. Where's the nice surprise when he takes his shirt off for me for the first time (or I take if off for him...

) when I already know what I'm getting?

And, IMO even worse, that potentially thousands of other people know what I'm getting too?

The pic you already have as your profile is by far a better pic.

If the question is 'hairy vs non-hairy', I'd have to go with the natural look. I dated a man who shaved and/or waxed his chest hair and there's nothing so off-putting than cuddling a man who has stubble all over his chest and stomach

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 1:35:06 PM

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Thanks and ya just asking about hair. The expression is off because I'm trying to look at screen and take pic. Not planning on using as a profile pic just evaluation.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 1:46:32 PM

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I'm partial to hair on the chest, myself.

And I agree with the comments of it not being an optimal profile pic for the reasons myotherself stated.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 5:21:51 PM

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I vote for the smooth chest.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 5:46:40 PM

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I generally get swoony over chest hair, but I like the smooth picture of you better. If it were me in person, I'd take the hair. Can't STAND stubble - I had a man that shaved his chest because his chest hair was completely gray and he disliked it. I honestly couldn't bring myself to spend much time in contact with his chest because the stubble made me want to grit my teeth. As opposed to when I talked him into letting his chest hair grow- couldn't keep my fingers out of it. As far as the pics you posted go though I like your smooth look better.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 6:51:13 PM

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As for me i like the natural look (unless he has so much chest hair he gets ringlets). If my Master shaved and had srubble i would not like me to hold me as tight as he does. It is bad enough he has stubble on his face don't want it in the chest as well.

As for the OP i afree with others i don'r like either pic.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 7:49:57 PM

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hairless. I don't like a lot of hair.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 8:24:40 PM

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I love men's chest hair. Fortunately for me, my Master isn't in to waxing his chest.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/7/2013 9:18:15 PM

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I think they're both fine (sorry, not much help?) Personally, I don't mind chest hair as long as it's not extreme. I don't mind it being gone, either.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 2:12:28 AM

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quote:

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I think they're both fine (sorry, not much help?) Personally, I don't mind chest hair as long as it's not extreme. I don't mind it being gone, either.

I agree with this, but if you decide to be hairless you really need to commit to staying on top of it, because like the others have said, stubble is not good. A little stubble on the chin? Rugged. A little stubble on the chest? Chafing.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 4:40:17 AM

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Personally, I flip flopped, I liked hairy chests, then I didn't. Currently my partner has a hairy chest and I love laying against it. I guess I flip flop because some guys with hairy chests are assholes, some guys with no hair are assholes....and as long as he is NOT an asshole, I could care less whether he has a hairy chest or not.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 9:40:11 AM

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Are you going to stay shaved? Then show that picture.
If you're planning to let it grow out, show the hairy pic.
Use the pic that shows what you now look like.

Although you've got a weird expression on your face. Try it again when you feel happy. Because that's what people want in a partner, someone they are happy being with. Happy people get a lot more attention than others.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 11:19:44 AM

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Here's a question for ya. Which do you prefer???? Getting a long list of yeas and nays is fairly pointless. Some prefer the one, some prefer the other. It's a crap shoot, so I'd advise you to be yourself.

In the have-your-cake-and-eat-it-too department, if you decide to go with hairy and find a strong relationship building with someone who prefers the opposite, you always have the option to shave it off!

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 2:38:57 PM

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quote:

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Here's a question for ya. Which do you prefer???? Getting a long list of yeas and nays is fairly pointless. Some prefer the one, some prefer the other. It's a crap shoot, so I'd advise you to be yourself.

In the have-your-cake-and-eat-it-too department, if you decide to go with hairy and find a strong relationship building with someone who prefers the opposite, you always have the option to shave it off!

Good point. I don't really care either way. I've been negatively criticized for my chest hair in the past, so I am self conscious about it. That's why I tried the trim job. I don't think you can tell from the picture, but its just trimmed, not shaved. So there is little scratchiness to me or anyone else. I've personally tired waxing, its too painful (more power to the ladies that put up with it). Shaving is too high maintenance.

One negative I noticed is the hair hid some of the extra body fat. I think someone commented about man boobs. They've always been there just harder to see w/o hair. I'm down 20lbs from my old average. Guess I need to get the last 10 off, to rectify that issue.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 2:46:28 PM

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Good for you losing the 20lbs that is an achichement.

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RE: Before or after? - 9/8/2013 4:09:57 PM

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