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lilcracker -> RE: Before or after? (9/9/2013 5:59:04 AM)
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My advice is...if someone is going to negatively react to your hairy chest or man boobs...shoot they are not worth having. People that see the beauty inside a person are far more attractive than ones that look at the physical. True story....I have a niece that is close in age to me...more like a sister than a niece because of our closeness in age. My partner had never met her...yet she calls almost daily and my partner has had the opportunity to get to know her by my talking about her and his talking to her on the phone. To those her don't know her well, she probably appears not physically attractive. She is very over weight, has a difficult time getting around due to that. But she has a good heart and is one of the sweetest people I know.
Over the summer she came to spend the weekend with our family. My daughter went to pick her up (because normally she stays there with her because I did not have the extra room at my house now we do but anyway) and we all met up at my other daughter's house for a 4th of July party. This was the first time my partner met her. I had told him, that she is on the larger size...I don't know maybe deep down I feel a bit embarrassed for her because she struggles so with it and I wanted him to like her based on her nature not on her size. After an hour or so of chatting as a family, I got the opportunity to whisper to my partner, "So what do you think about her now that you have met her in person." He said, "She's beautiful and an amazing person." I guess I should have expected nothing less, because you see...he looks for the inner beauty.
Wishing you luck EasyE in finding the perfect person who loves you for who you are and not what you look like.
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