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Is it like riding a bike? - 6/30/2006 6:24:04 PM   
BeaumontSubMale


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Status: offline 		Been quite a while since I have served a Mistress, as I sort of retreated to the vanilla world for a while.  Not so much that I wanted to retreat the vanilla world, but very little BDSM activity in this rural area.Anyway, I still keep in touch with a Mistress that I used to serve on a regular basis, via e-mails and the occasional IM.  She knows that I am not seeing anyone at this time, although I suspect she has one or more subs at this time.  But, that is her business, not mine.  Over the past couple of weeks she has sent me a few suggestive e-mails, just teasing me with the prospect of allowing me to serve her again.  Of course, I have always reciprocated by begging her to give me another opportunity to serve.  Even if she only used me for a yard boy, I was craving her control.Anyway, after another suggestive e-mails this afternoon, and some groveling on my part, she has agreed to see me tomorrow with the following conditions.  I will be nothing more than her bitch, I will be bound, gagged and taken like a slut, nothing more.  I obviously know this means the strap-on.  Been a while since I have been penetrated with a strap-on, at least a year.  And then, it was something we worked up to over a few sessions.  I do enjoy strap-on play, although I have always been concerned about safety.  I know she is also very concerned about safety, but I'm also positive that she will expect me to take it like a man.I really don't want to disappoint her at all, hopefully I will do well tomorrow and there will be more opportunities to play in the future.  I guess what I am wondering, while I do find strap-on play to be VERY painful, I love it for the humiliation aspect as well as knowing the pleasure it brings my Mistress.  And while I do find it very painful, I have taken her strap-on before, but as I mentioned before, that was after a few sessions with smaller objects.  If I have taken her strap-on once, should I be able to take it again without any recent play?  I sooo don't want to disappoint her!  Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. 
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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 6/30/2006 7:19:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not sure what exactly she is intending as far as size, etc. goes but I would be sure to let her know you have done zero anal play in over a year.  If she is as safety conscious as you say she will take that into consideration.

I'm sure you won't disappoint her.  Have fun

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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 6/30/2006 8:54:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BeaumontSubMale

If I have taken her strap-on once, should I be able to take it again without any recent play? I sooo don't want to disappoint her! Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.



Sadly, things tend to retreat back to "pre-training" size so you might need to work back up to where you once were (or as Paul McCartney says "Get back to where you once belonged")

Anyway, it might not be a bad idea if you brought your own. (BYOC) That way, if her's is too big you can humbly provide your own for her consideration.

Good Luck
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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 6/30/2006 9:20:58 PM   
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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 6/30/2006 10:20:32 PM   
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Stop being a wuss.

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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 7/1/2006 12:03:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with TexasMaam, grit your teeth & arch your back.

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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 7/1/2006 12:45:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BeaumontSubMale

And while I do find it very painful, I have taken her strap-on before, but as I mentioned before, that was after a few sessions with smaller objects. If I have taken her strap-on once, should I be able to take it again without any recent play? I sooo don't want to disappoint her! Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


Ah, if it is very painful... you may not have be using enough lube.

Bad pain is the way your body tries to take care of itself.

Ignore it and you will be damaged.

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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 7/2/2006 8:49:58 AM   
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I agree with TexasMaam, grit your teeth & arch your back.


you know peter, every time I see your posts and that pic, I am filled with the most marvelous evil thoughts...
 

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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 7/2/2006 9:11:33 AM   
onyurknees


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Status: offline 		If you really find it "very painful", perhaps something is wrong with this picture. I am personally all in favour of doling out pain but with anal play, pain can mean something much more serious than ass bruises or aching balls.
More lube, more relaxation (tough if your body is expecting to hurt a lot) and some prep with a gloved finger or two might be in order. Or certainly begging for a small strap-on to start with (bringing your own as one person suggested might be a good idea).
I expect my toys to "take it like a man" but I also prefer not to break my toys ... but maybe that's just me.
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RE: Is it like riding a bike? - 7/2/2006 9:06:13 PM   
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Is it like riding a bike?


Yeah.  You enjoy doing it, but your butt's still sore afterwards.

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