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Porn for women - 9/8/2013 11:04:27 AM   
Nobody84


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Status: offline 		Hello everybody,

I hope you guys can help me with something. I need to find a good porn movie for my wife.
It's not that easy because she would like a movie with a little bit of story and not just mere sex scenes. Also, the guy should have very big muscles and cock and maybe also a few tattos. She likes to watch men who do it rough (like ripping a woman's clothes) and in a dominant position (not BDSM though).
Can you recommend any website that provides such material? I don't care if I have to pay for it. Sorry about my english, it may not be perfect. =)

Thanks
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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 12:00:55 PM   
TigressLily


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Status: offline 		I might be the least-qualified person to give you advice on this topic since I don't watch hard porn. I've seen some in the past, and it's so laughable and I'm so critical that it's not an enjoyable activity for me, defeating the whole purpose of getting aroused. Most of the time it has the opposite effect. I've always preferred soft porn. Back when there used to be Cmax late night, I would often tape soft porn movies to lend out to a large motley crew of in-laws (they had the hard stuff but had gotten tired of it--which reminds me, they never returned a bunch of mine :).

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It's not that easy because she would like a movie with a little bit of story and not just mere sex scenes.



That's a tall order, buddy. She probably wants to see some decent acting as well as an actual plot and storyline. No ravaging, but if you want an uber-classic erotic tale, worth adding to any CD collection, get "Lady Chatterley's Lover" at Amazon. I haven't seen the newer versions, but the original one with Sylvia Kristel & Nicholas Clay always gets me hot. Then there's the whole "Emmanuelle" series, some of which also star the late Sylvia Kristel, a renowned soft-porn actress.

"The Night Porter" starring Charlotte Rampling is another classic, but it might be too dark for her tastes. Personally wouldn't recommend it since I don't play on that side of the fence, but it did introduce BDSM to a mainstream audience back in the day.

The older John Holmes stuff also has fairly believable stories, except that he's a mutant, and you might not want your wife to see him in action, unless you're into cuckolding. About 20-25 years ago, I must have been the only (working) soccer mom frequenting the 2 video stores in our suburban neighborhood that had an adult video section in the back behind a black curtain. I had the owners scrambling to find me softer porn, and there is some good, often humorous British porn if you can get your hands on it. One starts with a "P" (title escapes me) about a guy who stumbles into a BDSM house and ends up becoming the Dominatrix's slave. It's really hilarious in a titillating way.

You're fortunate your wife is showing an interest in spicing things up in your marriage. Definitely be choosy in your selections. All the best of luck in your endeavors.


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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 12:13:22 PM   
Miyani


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Status: offline 		These would get me in the mood...







< Message edited by Miyani -- 9/8/2013 12:14:25 PM >

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 12:22:48 PM   
TigressLily


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LOL



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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 1:29:11 PM   
AaNiMaLl


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Status: offline 		I have a few random small points to make on this.

I have dabbled with getting girlfriends to find porn for me sometimes. Women are after a different style that I don't really enjoy.

When I look at porn then I always share it with my girlfriend. I know that she does not really like the porn in itself but she appreciates the fact that I am honest and open about it. And I feel healthier in the relationship for it.

Also, think about how particular you are with your porn and then times that by ten. It is pretty difficult if not impossible to find the right movie.

Look for porn if you want but if you really want to drive her crazy then write some erotica for her. At least you will get an A for effort. ... 'Holding the baby in one arm and the iron in the other, you know that I am the Master of Domestic Work. I work that iron with military precision paying attention to every detail and you know that you are next. Nothing says power like a man holding a baby, and you know that you are next. Picturing yourself in my arms, held with the same strong love. As the routine of the morning gets itself out of the way there is the ever present loom of what is to come. When you know that you too will be under me. Manipulated and used for a purpose.'. ...:).

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 1:31:24 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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These would get me in the mood...








Me too!!

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 2:00:15 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I don't like porn. What turns me on is to see movies where there is passion of any kind, love or just sex.

I am old fashioned, I prefer to see Rhett Butler grab Scarlett and kiss her than see some staged porn.

As for BDSM, even something like 9 1/2 Weeks and Secretary touched me because it was about real relationships, flaws and all and viewed from the woman's perspective.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 2:13:16 PM   
Miyani


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Status: offline 		Red raises a very good point. Instead of looking for porn, wouldn't it be possible to look for a fairly explicit movie where the sex is really well done? Women in general enjoy "seeing" the emotion and connection behind the sex, not just a cock ramming into a hole.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 2:16:31 PM   
TigressLily


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Status: offline 		Great idea if the guy can write. It's hard enough to find a guy who can compose a romantic love letter. (I do get sentimental about many of the texts I've received, a few were romantic, the rest were when we were talking dirty. Not counting the ones where I've issued instructions as Mistress; can't speak for whether my sub has viewed those in a sentimental vein. ;)

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ORIGINAL: AaNiMaLl

Look for porn if you want but if you really want to drive her crazy then write some erotica for her. At least you will get an A for effort.



But that's an idea, to check out Literotica.com. Haven't done so myself, but I've heard about it from a couple guys who are selective and don't like a lot of the trashy FemDom stuff that's out there, which is mostly written by males for males to wank off to. Then you can read to her while you're both in bed together, or have her read to you, or take turns, which I can foresee producing a sexy outcome.




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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 2:18:05 PM   
DaddyMax4you


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Status: offline 		Bright desire has a really good reputation for genuine, heterosexual amateur sex scenes that are really well done. I haven't seen it myself, but the reviews are really good.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 2:21:09 PM   
DaddyMax4you


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Status: offline 		http://brightdesire.com/tour/wendy-and-dave-2/



Not really rough, the tattoos are there and it's heterosexual.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 2:26:59 PM   
lastunicorn


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Check out anything by Candida Royalle, femme productions .

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 3:05:35 PM   
leonine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TigressLily
there is some good, often humorous British porn if you can get your hands on it. One starts with a "P" (title escapes me) about a guy who stumbles into a BDSM house and ends up becoming the Dominatrix's slave. It's really hilarious in a titillating way.


That would be "Preaching to the Perverted," which is a lot of fun, but I wouldn't call it pornographic. But maybe I'm jaded :)

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 3:34:56 PM   
SunTzuSwe


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Status: offline 		If you're up for some rough stuff, kink.com has several sub domains which cater to different tastes.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/8/2013 3:38:16 PM   
njlauren


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Status: offline 		It is difficult, most women react differently than men with erotic stuff, women tend to want what others have said, something of a story, and something where it is romantic,not just two fake looking people tearing their clothing off and rutting, most porn is made for men.

Here is one website I found, I believe they run bright desire, but they have links to other sites. Some of it is more GLBT oriented, but there should be stuff you like, too.
http://www.pornforwomen.net/porn_for_women.html

The other thing may be to check out netflix or amazon in their romance section, it won't have explicit sex (more like the soft core stuff they used to show on places like Showtime). One series I remember was the Red Shoe diaries, knew several women who said they had liked it when it was out there, and that style of thing might work better....

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RE: Porn for women - 9/9/2013 8:12:18 AM   
VideoAdminChi


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Status: offline 		As the OP requested "not BDSM," this thread is now in Off Topic.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/9/2013 12:04:22 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: AaNiMaLl

'Holding the baby in one arm and the iron in the other, you know that I am the Master of Domestic Work. I work that iron with military precision paying attention to every detail and you know that you are next. Nothing says power like a man holding a baby, and you know that you are next. Picturing yourself in my arms, held with the same strong love. As the routine of the morning gets itself out of the way there is the ever present loom of what is to come. When you know that you too will be under me. Manipulated and used for a purpose.'. ...:).


AaNiMaLI, you've definitely got the knack. Carry on! There's a niche for this type of writing, and I think you could profit from it!

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RE: Porn for women - 9/9/2013 1:05:49 PM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I'd much rather watch a movie with some great intimate scenes.
I like porn, but I'm not so much into the cheesy storylines and bad acting. If I'm going to watch porn, it's for one reason and that does not include a storyline.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/9/2013 9:36:32 PM   
DsBound


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Status: offline 		Id suggest visiting www.xhamster.com... there's something for just about anyone there.

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RE: Porn for women - 9/9/2013 9:45:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Personally, I like the movie Unfaithful. Olivier Martinez. *purr*

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