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finding mistress in india - 9/9/2013 3:20:38 AM

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I am searching for mistress in India. I had also mailed to some of the mistress here but none of them replied.please let me know how do I approach to them?

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RE: finding mistress in india - 9/9/2013 4:05:00 AM

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Welcome to the forums. Can't say I know how it works over there in Mumbai, but I do see profiles pop up on home page every so often for Dommes in India, so I know they do come onto this site. I don't remember where she was located (it might have been New Delhi), but a couple months ago, I spotted one from a widow who was about 40, just to give you an idea. You may have to seek out an older woman if that's not much of an issue; it isn't with American male submissives/slaves, that's for sure.

It might help, though, if you take the time to fill out your profile, including checking off your Interests. Other than some stats, you have what I would call an empty profile. You don't say whether you are straight or bisexual, just that you are seeking Dominant Women, Dom/Domme or Femdom Couples. This might not matter to some folks, but it does matter to me how a male sub/slave classifies himself. Go with what you are, not with what you think a presently non-existent possibility might want you to be.

Now, if you are able, upload a photo at some point. It can be symbolic, not overly graphic (not too sexual). This is only my personal opinion, but I have found it pleasing to the eye to see male Indian slaves depict themselves kneeling with head bowed, both photos were in black & white. One was solitary, and this could be an actual picture of yourself that would be unidentifiable; in the other, the slave was in the distance behind the silhouette of a standing Mistress holding a whip in her hand. Perhaps you could hire a woman to take a few photos of you in the solitary posture. That would be half the battle. Then watch her response to gauge whether she shows an interest in why you are doing this. You don't want to scare her off, so don't proposition her right away to act dominant with you. It will intrigue her more if you don't come onto her. (She will wonder whether you didn't find her attractive enough.)

Happy hunting and good luck.

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RE: finding mistress in india - 9/9/2013 4:10:45 AM

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RE: finding mistress in india - 9/9/2013 6:26:09 AM

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Along with the advice to fill out your profile, I'll add something. It might help you to remember that not everyone will answer emails from people in other countries and/or have their mail controls set to send those emails to their bulk mail folder. For example, I have some text in My profile that says I'm only interested in receiving email from those who are local to Me or those who participate on the forums. A lot of the mail that I receive that doesn't fit one of those two categories, I delete unread.

The reason that I'll telling you this is, if you are getting an absolute zero response rate, you may want to try to refine your method of how you are selecting those that you contact. Make sure you are reading the profiles of those to whom you are sending emails and consider skipping those that use phrases such as local only, specify that they are not interested in long distance relationships, or have no interest in online BDSM. If they specifically mention that mail from other countries goes to their bulk folder, (something I've seen on a number of profiles) save yourself the time and skip those, too. Focus your attention on sending mail to those who say they enjoy chatting with people in various locations or are interested in receiving email from different places. It may improve the number of responses that you receive.

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