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sensualguy13 -> oragsm schedule (9/16/2013 3:08:54 PM)

for the dommes- if you had to put your sub on an orgasm schedule. what type would it be? I am sure there are a lot of different opinions- but I would like to hear them all.
thank you.



sensualguy13 -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/16/2013 3:12:28 PM)

just a thought - and I would love to hear the different views on the subject.



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/16/2013 5:14:33 PM)

Hmm, this gives me an idea. My slave is already set up for verbal trigger of orgasm. I wonder if I could make it so that she has an orgasm at the same time every day with or without me.



NiceAnimal -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/16/2013 6:34:50 PM)

What do you mean, you just say a word and she orgasms?




getoutnow -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/16/2013 6:38:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceAnimal

What do you mean, you just say a word and she orgasms?




Yeah its this myth that wannabe doms peddle around, that they have subs/slaves who cum on command.

It's complete tosh mind you and only a fool would believe so. What you don't know is that the sub has been kept on edge for days or weeks and if you looked at her the wrong way she would orgasm immediately. This is the key factor here.

Of course you have the subs which would say this is true, however what you don't know is that to protect the fragile ego of these wannabe doms is that they comply and say they did orgasm. When its not the case.

lmao [:D]



TigressLily -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/16/2013 7:42:30 PM)

Forget that, as far as I'm concerned--I want to know how do I do a verbal command for erection on cue.

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ORIGINAL: SerWhiteTiger

My slave is already set up for verbal trigger of orgasm.


(I can already see your inbox overflowing. . . .)

OP, can't really help you out there since I don't do schedules. I'm more spontaneous in that regard and prefer to utilize Edging, along with Tease & Denial. My last sub offered to start wearing a CB chastity device while he was at work, but that would have been during the weekday. I considered it for a couple weeks, then decided I didn't want to go down the path of turning him into a chastity slave. (I'm lazy that way, too much extra work checking in on him, they can always cheat, then you have to schedule milkings and be concerned about maintaining personal hygiene adequately.) I'd rather stay secure in the knowledge that I can trust my partner without having to go through a whole song & dance routine. If you do proceed down the chastity route, it should be with a Mistress who has already collared & owns you in RT, not some remote or cyber monitoring deal, otherwise her motives may not be in the right place. Don't expect someone you barely know to take on becoming your Keyholder for free.

If I were so inclined to enforce a chastity regimen beyond 'until the next time we get together,' I personally wouldn't go longer than once weekly intervals. But that's because I'm such a nice Mistress. *Yeah, Right*

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PrincessDonna11 -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/16/2013 9:41:12 PM)

I agree with Tigeress..who would do that?



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/16/2013 10:10:33 PM)

FR

I'd allow him to cum during the commercial break in X factor. He'd better be fast though, and he has to sit through the rest of the show as penance. The rest of the year when X factor isn't showing, he's outta luck. Though if he's very good, I might allow him a one-off during Dancing on Ice.

Seriously though, if I had a sub there would be no schedule because I don't get horny on a schedule, and I certainly won't be missing out on my sexual enjoyment in order to stick to his timetable. What's the point of controlling a slave's orgasm if I don't get to have it whenever I please?



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/16/2013 10:51:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceAnimal

What do you mean, you just say a word and she orgasms?




No, it's two words.



SerWhiteTiger -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/16/2013 10:54:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TigressLily
(I can already see your inbox overflowing. . . .)


If anyone who read this was local and I had my profile unhidden and they actually accepted the reality that it's possible then someone might send me a message. As a male Dom, I don't normally get any messages though. ;)



NiceAnimal -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/17/2013 1:21:38 AM)

Interesting.

Is it a particular association, like a conditioning, or is it more to do with orgasm denial, permission, her own sexuality and her half of the kink or both?

If that isn't too much info? Just curious.



sunshinemiss -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/17/2013 3:44:06 AM)

It's a fake orgasm is what it is. Or maybe not "fake" so much as ... let's call it a twinge.



TigressLily -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/17/2013 5:29:43 AM)

I'm pondering upon that as well, whether it's more the twingy, pulsating kind, a pseudo-orgasm like the type with deep inner throbbing (similar to those felt when getting one's nipples sucked on).

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

It's a fake orgasm is what it is. Or maybe not "fake" so much as ... let's call it a twinge.


. . . which still produces vaginal discharge, i.e. gets her panties wet.

Could you be a tad bit more specific OP, what do you mean by 'had to put', and does 'what type' mean the same as what frequency, as I've inferred?

quote:

ORIGINAL: sensualguy13

if you had to put your sub on an orgasm schedule. what type would it be?


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SerWhiteTiger -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/17/2013 12:48:37 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceAnimal

Interesting.

Is it a particular association, like a conditioning, or is it more to do with orgasm denial, permission, her own sexuality and her half of the kink or both?

If that isn't too much info? Just curious.


http://www.orgasmsexplained.com/orgasms/orgasm-on-command/

How well it works varies depending on her mood and how stimulated she is. If she's down, it barely works, although a couple repetitions gets her mood into proper order quick. I can't say that I understand the female orgasm well enough in the first place to be able to fully understand the differences. It's kind of its own type of orgasm though.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/17/2013 12:59:44 PM)

FR:

We've had numerous threads on the topic. Try doing a search for 'orgasm by demand.'

Some are sure it can't be done, others claim to have done it.



TigressLily -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/17/2013 3:52:38 PM)

What about 'Erection on Demand/Command'? Other than the usual talking dirty method. I'm only being slightly silly--I don't have anyone I'd want to practice this on right now anyway so it's a back-burner topic. {NOT interested in recruiting volunteers, so don't anyone contact me about this.}

OP hasn't responded yet so what the hell. sensualguy13, OP refers to you.



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RedMagic1 -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/17/2013 6:39:05 PM)

A femdom MD who used to post here had some interesting ideas about male orgasm schedule within the context of a relationship where the domme loves cock. Her blog is still up, though it looks abandoned. You might find it an interesting read.

http://mistress-jen.blogspot.com/



LadyPact -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/17/2013 11:08:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TigressLily
OP hasn't responded yet so what the hell. sensualguy13, OP refers to you.

I have a sneaking suspicion that the responses on this thread weren't exactly what the OP had in mind. [;)]

I'll be polite and leave it at that.




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MissImmortalPain -> RE: oragsm schedule (9/18/2013 1:08:28 AM)

I can't be the only one laughing at this question (sorry op) If I "had" to put a pet on a schedule I wouldn't be the one in control. If I wanted to put one on a schedule on the other hand....the answer is never. That is after all the point of chastity....never.

As for other things that have been brought up...
"how do I do a verbal command for erection on cue" that one is pretty easy....put it in a cage. Make sure you are the only person that ever touches his dick. Do it rarely and say the same word every time you do it. After a couple months he will get hard every time you say the word. Mine does it if I blow in his ear.

Yes it is a form of conditioning. Bordering on brainwashing.




TigressLily -> RE: Orgasm Schedule (9/18/2013 11:19:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

A femdom MD who used to post here had some interesting ideas about male orgasm schedule within the context of a relationship where the domme loves cock.
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http://mistress-jen.blogspot.com/


FRs~ Since there's already a current thread on this forum re Male Chastity (http://www.collarchat.com/m_4517411/tm.htm), I wanted to make sure OP wasn't asking his Q within this context. Hence being in a state of quasi-limbo. Meanwhile, I checked out portions of Dr. Jen's blog, thanks to RM1, and this is what she had to say, after differentiating between those who have little to no sexual desire with those who are in an intimate relationship together:

"The submissive that wants or is willing to be chastised in some way is in essence willing to trade off orgasms for a more consistent sexual energy happening to them. In other words a more regular life of ignore sex, build up or get horny, have an orgasm and sexual energy goes poof and to be built up again. In other words again replace a roller coaster ride with a sports car going really fast down a highway.

But just withholding sex and having them not orgasm is not what chastity is or will work for these types of submissives. Like with pretty much every aspect of all types of relationships there is equal effort in some way that is needed from there other. For this type of chastity there needs to be sexual energy flowing through the relationship and sexual torment.

For me it is tough to go longer then a week with out wanting my slave sexually in a bad way. The longest I ever managed was three and a half weeks.

[For instance you cannot keep promising potential sexual release if he does that or is a good boy and then not ever give it to him." (Nov.7, 2009) [italics&bolding mine]

Orgasm Control per se in its most simplistic sense is whenever the D-type regulates how often the s-type is permitted to masturbate or engage in any other sexual activity resulting in reaching orgasm. This will vary, depending upon the degree to which the D-type elects to exercise this type of control, whether the Sexual Torment aspect is motivated by (mutual) sexual desire or merely for sadistic purposes solely to gratify the Dominant.

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