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JeffBC -> RE: sub n training (9/20/2013 8:26:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BiancaRain HOW do I get better at taking my spankings..And be more submissive. This is probably not helpful but I'll go ahead anyway. For me, "pain" is simply a signal my body is sending my brain. I choose how to interpret it in all but the most dramatic of cases. You don't need to use the default response to pain signals if you don't want to. There's a scene in Lawrence of Arabia that speaks to this. Then again, I'd make a crappy masochist for exactly that reason so if you succeeded at that your sadistic partner may be left totally unfulfilled.

SerWhiteTiger -> RE: sub n training (9/20/2013 11:23:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BiancaRain No it was.. lmafo I think I was not being like relaxed, because it didn't hurt a bit. So, he wasn't making you feel relaxed...

TheLilSquaw -> RE: sub n training (9/20/2013 11:59:04 AM)
Maybe I am wrong but IF the spankings are a punishment to me you shouldn't be comfortable and or relaxed. You shouldn't enjoy a punishment and he shouldn't enjoy having to punish you. Now funishment is a totally different story.

BiancaRain -> RE: sub n training (9/20/2013 12:46:55 PM)
I think it was only punishment because I looked at it as one.

zerogirl -> RE: sub n training (9/22/2013 9:35:06 AM)
There are different spankings that illicit different reactions in me. So naturally they are used for different purposes. I have my wink, wink "punishment" spankings which I love of course. That's when I get to be laid over His lap and He uses a paddle or His hand. It's probably a combination of the relaxing position and the comfort of touching him that get's me in the "zone" and I enjoy them so much. And then I have spankings which really are used to punish me when I need to be. Those usually involve the cane and me leaning over something or against the wall. Different reaction entirely.

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