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Recreational slave question to Master/Mistress - 7/1/2006 7:19:05 AM

EWS

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Kind of a different name for a non live in slave, but describes my interest. I have visited many Masters, some pros over the years and as a rule have enjoyed the time spent with most of them.

My interests are wide and varried, from simple spankings to more elaborate and sustained punishment, discipline, and humiliation sessions; which have incuded forced nuditiy, oral servitude and worship, use of electronic stimulation and other means of pain inflicting impliments for the enjoyment of my Master.

Now the question. I like to spend time in Chicago, a city where you'd think you could make just about any of your desires come to pass. I'm in my mid 50's, in excellent physical condition, very healthy with never having had any type of std's whatsoever, slightly better than average looks, very uninhibited and like kinky things. Why is it so difficult to find two guys, in their late 20's to early 40's that would together enjoy tormenting and torturing a guy like myself. The only bigger "turn on" for me would be for their to be another couple of guys sitting around watching the proceedings, and adding to the abject humiliation factor.

It's not that I get only a few responses to my postings, I get none. What's going on? Am I naive? Should I stop even posting and just go back to the one on one situation which I must admit to really enjoying with the right guy. Thanks Erik

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RE: Recreational slave question to Master/Mistress - 7/1/2006 7:50:10 AM

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Well, I can't say for sure, but I think the problem with finding that type of situation may have less to do with you and more to do with people in general, specifically those of the male gender. While there are plenty of men who will feel comfortable going one on one with a guy and many on one with a girl, I think the man who will go 2 (or more) guys on one is a little harder to come by. And you've triple the difficulty because now not only do you have to find one person who wants what you want- you have to find 2 - and those 2 have to be ok with each other as well as you. The age range could either make it harder or easier. I tend to think those of my generation (20’s) to be a little more open-minded in that respect, but at the same time someone my age but younger then 50 may not have enough experience to be comfortable doing this. In truth I think you will have the most luck with the late 30’s to late 40’s crowd. Good Luck- you will probably need it.

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RE: Recreational slave question to Master/Mistress - 7/1/2006 7:54:28 AM

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The more you specialize,the narrower the field of choices.

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RE: Recreational slave question to Master/Mistress - 7/1/2006 8:34:42 AM

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EWS, if you're talking about a lack of response on this site in specific, it may have to do with your profile having virtually nothing on it in terms of you naming what you seek. Also, you've only been here for a week or so lol.

As for Chicago; attend any munches? Leather clubs? Put ads in alternative papers?

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