What am I getting myself into???

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HisNameHere -> What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 2:41:54 AM)
Quick summary, I'm an early 20's virgin, sorta. I've been with a few women, but it turned into a disaster. So I never had the full experience. I really need help, and I also have always been down with light femdom, and I'm very interested in ass play. Am I biting off more than I can chew. As a a virgin, am I jumping into the wrong end of the pool.

lizi -> RE: What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 2:58:42 AM)
Get to know someone as a person and they may become interested in you sexually enough to work with your reservations about sex in general, and help you explore your desires.

NiceAnimal -> RE: What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 3:52:12 AM)
Yeah find someone you trust. If you lean that way, that's the way you lean. But you might want to start with a little rough sex, or just regular sex, with someone you trust, and ease into the other stuff.

AaNiMaLl -> RE: What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 7:56:13 AM)
So much interesting stuff on this forum 0230 in the morning and I am still reading :). So what? You are worried that you are going to be emotionally scarred or something because you are a virgin? I had a look at your profile. My best mate is the same as you. He loves his trans. Messed up :). Interesting though. No girls. No guys just trans. And you are a virgin. Jesus :). Let me think. I guess that I could ask my mate. But I think that he is on a different level. He says, 'it is just like a girl but with a penis'. What if trans didn't exist then you would be stuffed? At least there is something that turns you on. So advice. Step one, look at yourself and find out what you really want. Most of us want love. Step two, find a trans that can meet your emotional needs. Step three, get to know them. That is how it has worked for me in the past. I just get to know them. And that is reward in itself. I have never had a one night stand or anything. And then once I get to know them and am connected with them that is already like sex. Like, to me as soon as someone talks to me then they are having sex with me because they are letting me into them.

TigressLily -> RE: What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 8:00:50 AM)
OP, you have a duplicate thread under Ask A Mistress, namely "How to find a domme" http://www.collarchat.com/m_4549826/tm.htm under your same HisNameHere user name. Since you're new, you probably didn't know this isn't permitted. [sm=diethreaddie.gif] _____________________________ * * * Not A Fetish/Kink Delivery System * * *

ivone57 -> RE: What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 8:57:31 AM)
what lizi said...

VideoAdminChi -> RE: What am I getting myself into??? (9/21/2013 9:02:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TigressLily OP, you have a duplicate thread under Ask A Mistress, namely "How to find a domme" http://www.collarchat.com/m_4549826/tm.htm under your same HisNameHere user name. Since you're new, you probably didn't know this isn't permitted. As this thread is a cross post of the one above, it has been locked. Persons wishing to comment should do so on the other thread.

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