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cuckold07 -> mental cruelty role play? (9/22/2013 9:36:42 PM)

I am certain I am not alone on this fantasy but I am not even close to certain how many others have fantasies about being mistreated in a "mental" way. I am guessing more men than women would like to be on the receiving/submissive end of this (my guess anyway).

More specifically if anyone has seen the occasional movie or heard of real stories where a woman plots to have her mate appear insane and have him committed. One movie that does a good job of depicting this was made appx. 1964 called Hush Hush Sweet Charlotte, in which a young cousin and family doctor do a good job driving an older lady into a mental institution and would have succeeded but they celebrating one day too soon and the old lady killed them both.

I loved the elaborate and cruel plan as it unfolded and the disdainful attitude they had when the dealt with the lady. They utilized injections, they put tape reccorders in the wall spaces and played music and created voices at odd hours and used props to actually drive the lady into a quivering dribbling lunatic at the end.

I would not want to know that this happened in real life but I do like this type of fantasy role play. Any others feel simular attraction to this? I would love to know. Anyone wanting to share thoughts, I am here



hlen5 -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/23/2013 3:29:46 PM)

I thought the guy was doing that to his wife, Charlotte (a lovely name, by the way!).



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/23/2013 3:34:21 PM)

That would take WAY too long!!!



NuevaVida -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/23/2013 4:55:45 PM)

When I was still married my then husband convinced me I was mentally ill and I almost killed myself.

He wasn't playing.

And yes, it was cruel.



Winterapple -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/23/2013 5:32:10 PM)

The definitive film on this is Gaslight with Charles
Boyer and Ingrid Bergman. When people talk about
gaslighting someone it's from this film and the play
it was based on that the expression/ word was coined.

It means attempting to make someone think they are
mad or going mad. You could incorporate the sensations
in a controlled and short term mind fuck with everyone
onboard with what was going on. I also think there are
some people to vulnerable for it to be even done in the
short term.



cuckold07 -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/23/2013 5:42:28 PM)

thanks for the responses. Yes I remember Gaslight but it was less interesting since a male figure was being cruel, it would have been better if the wife was the cruel one or at least the husband had a female accomplice.



TigressLily -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/24/2013 7:53:19 PM)

[sm=wtf.gif] Don't you get mind-fucked enough in real day-to-day life?

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ORIGINAL: cuckold07

I am certain I am not alone on this fantasy but I am not even close to certain how many others have fantasies about being mistreated in a "mental" way.

I would not want to know that this happened in real life but I do like this type of fantasy role play. Any others feel simular attraction to this? I would love to know. Anyone wanting to share thoughts, I am here


In answer to your question: NO.

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ivone57 -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/24/2013 8:23:58 PM)

no i would not like it ... im nuts already so i dont need any help....lol [8D]



SweetAnise -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/25/2013 5:27:27 AM)

Mental cruelty can only lead to the eventual mental breakdown. Even if one likes it. Almost sounds cultish. I wouldn't recommend it.



chatterbox24 -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/25/2013 5:50:03 AM)

The name Charlotte, is a beautiful name.

Such as in Charlottes web, she was a spider, and she had a good excuse for weaving a tangled web.

Careful what you ask for, you are not a spider.



Gauge -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/25/2013 11:42:18 AM)

This sounds like it has the potential to be very dangerous, I am not condemning your kink in any way when I say that.

There is a distinct difference between mental bondage and mental cruelty. Are you certain that you could completely trust someone to do this to you and not drive you over the edge? I mean, think about it, someone making you question your own sanity and perception of reality even if it is for a short time and for "fantasy" just sounds like it has all the ingredients necessary for disaster. And how would someone go about bringing you back from that experience?

Thinking about this on a fantasy level is one thing, having someone do it and possibly succeed in destabilizing you mentally is another.



Kana -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/25/2013 2:14:42 PM)

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I loved the elaborate and cruel plan as it unfolded and the disdainful attitude they had when the dealt with the lady. They utilized injections, they put tape reccorders in the wall spaces and played music and created voices at odd hours and used props to actually drive the lady into a quivering dribbling lunatic at the end.

I would not want to know that this happened in real life but I do like this type of fantasy role play. Any others feel simular attraction to this? I would love to know. Anyone wanting to share thoughts, I am here


No but I would adore taking a young slut,keeping her in plugged, vibed , in stringent bondage and deep sensory deprivation for extended periods of time with nothing but a tape of her screams, sex sounds, my voice doing that subliminal repeated message thing,"You are a piece of owned meat.You exist to be ravished..." sorta thing interspersed with the occasional loud blast of some killer industrial just to jolt the fuck out of her senses, playing in her ears.
And I ain't talking just a few hours here. I'm talking days locked in nothingness except a loop playing in her ears.maybe rig up a wireless mike so I could talk directly in, talk at/to her/it while I raped it's bound holes.
Yeah, that would be loads and loads of fun. gives me a woodie just thinking about it.
Get back to me in a year or so, I'll fill you in on how it's going...



ResidentSadist -> RE: mental cruelty role play? (9/25/2013 2:38:44 PM)

I'm not big on gaslighting. There are far better and easier mindfucks, like making someone think they are going to die.

-=Damocles mind fuck=-
One of our fellow Floridian Dominants likes to pull this on new dates to test their mettle. If they take it for the sport of it, they are OK in his book. If they rebel and don't take it in the spirit it was give, then they are far to sensative to survive a future with him. It is the way he weeds out the girls who have a compatible spirit.

He takes his new date to the dungeon. Being a very nice Dom type, he explains all that he is about to do in advance. He ties her up nicely for full suspension and elevates her on the davit. Then he puts a sword under her belly button like an inverted Damocles sword situation. It presses against her and is held in place. He puts a blindfold on her and then tells her he is going to adjust the sword. Secretly, the sword is removed and an a secret accomplice sneaks up and holds a short dagger in its place. Then the Dominant tells his submissive he is going to adjust the davit ropes. He takes the hand crank for the davit and yells “ooops”, dropping her down a foot quickly.
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You can make someone's life flash before their eyes on a first date but I don't think you can make them doubt their sanity in one night. With gaslighting there is nothing much in it for me because I do more intense and more satisfying tortures and mindfucks already. Besides, for that amount of work you could create a Stepford wife instead. Now there is something I can see a tangible return for.



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