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FemDomcpl4play -> humiliation (9/28/2013 9:21:37 AM)

Being fairly new to the life style I am searching way to humiliate my male sub. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.



DarkSteven -> RE: humiliation (9/28/2013 9:43:14 AM)

New to the lifestyle? Your profile says you joined the site six years ago.

Aside from that, you know far more about what humiliates him than we do.



DomMeinCT -> RE: humiliation (9/28/2013 9:59:43 AM)


You've got 10 explicit pictures on the profile doing just that.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: humiliation (9/28/2013 12:17:26 PM)

I made the mistake of clicking on 'all photos'. [:'(] What's been seen...cannot be unseen.[:'(]

You seem to be doing an OK job on your own.



iwearpanties -> RE: humiliation (10/6/2013 8:55:05 PM)

It looks that way



SurrenderForMe -> RE: humiliation (10/6/2013 10:43:55 PM)

Lol, you guys are a howl. The photo's weren't all that bad or even that intense, so sad.

On the humiliation front, you know your pet better than we do. Humiliation is subjective. If you just want ideas, do a search of the forums. There have been many threads and you can pick the ones that fit you and your pet. It will take very little effort before your cup 'runneth' over with ideas.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: humiliation (10/10/2013 5:47:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

I made the mistake of clicking on 'all photos'. [:'(] What's been seen...cannot be unseen.[:'(]



(I concur).



bra4guy -> RE: humiliation (12/22/2013 8:50:11 AM)

well.... a former Mistress of mine, required that I wear her panties when out in public...



Sylph -> RE: humiliation (12/23/2013 9:38:05 PM)

Sometimes you reach a mental plateau and need a bit more information . Have you tried the old order him to tell you his fears or most embarrassing fantasies? You are under no obligation to enact those fantasies, but I have found those games give me insight and spark creativity .

It does look like you two have a fine start :)



HipPoindexter -> RE: humiliation (12/25/2013 6:59:05 AM)

i concur that the pictures are not exactly scandalous.

i also concur that there is no way for strangers with limited information to make salient suggestions for humiliation techniques. an ex wanted to humiliate me by making me wear panties in public. i never had the heart to tell her that it in no way got under my skin. dressing in a hurry i've often put on ex's panties when i was in a rush for a meeting or a flight or something and couldn't find a clean pair of my own boxers. for whatever reason, that would apparently mortify some dudes.

psychological triggers are so idiosyncratic.

good luck though!



Toysinbabeland -> RE: humiliation (12/25/2013 7:03:15 AM)

Edited to save my tongue.
I'll wait for your second post.
Good luck.



VicTimized -> RE: humiliation (12/27/2013 10:45:39 PM)

The OP didn't get a lot of specific suggestions here, perhaps for legitimate reasons. I'd suggest reposting in the Ask A Submissive forum, and getting some sub men to tell you what they personally find humiliating. You can discuss those with your partner and find some that are appealing to you, humiliating for him, and within both of your consensual limits.

There is such a wide variety of activities. Many folks enjoy urine play, such as scent marking, GS, or simply making him drink from you for his refreshment. Food mortification can be effective, even basic things like trampling his meal and making him lick it up off your feet. Feeding him his own ejaculate, off of your favorite dildo, can be powerful. Humiliation seems to be at the root of most cuckold play, if you want to go there. Good old scolding, name calling and corner time works for many. If you like the cross dressing stuff, try taking him out shopping at a boutique, and let the sales lady know you are looking for something that will fit him. The possibilities are endless.

Good luck and have fun! VT



RedMagic1 -> RE: humiliation (12/27/2013 11:01:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe
Lol, you guys are a howl. The photo's weren't all that bad or even that intense, so sad.

Yeah, no kidding. I don't know what I was expecting, but not something as mild as what I saw.



VideoAdminChi -> RE: humiliation (12/28/2013 6:43:17 AM)

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The OP didn't get a lot of specific suggestions here, perhaps for legitimate reasons. I'd suggest reposting in the Ask A Submissive forum, and getting some sub men to tell you what they personally find humiliating.


Sub men read and post in this forum too - no need to cross post. Rochsub2009 recently made some thought provoking posts about wearing panties.



ResidentSadist -> RE: humiliation (12/29/2013 1:18:10 AM)

OK, now you guys got me perving the pics. LOL

Piss on him and make him roll in newspaper to dry off. Leave your scent on him.



MariaB -> RE: humiliation (12/29/2013 1:37:32 AM)

I love playing around with humiliation and male subs are usually very receptive. The problem is, you haven't given us any clues as to what you are both into or what both your limits are.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: humiliation (12/29/2013 8:13:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FemDomcpl4play

Being fairly new to the life style I am searching way to humiliate my male sub. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


I'd make him turn the channels while the pizza boy arrives.

(I'm so daring).



DaddySatyr -> RE: humiliation (12/29/2013 8:15:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FemDomcpl4play

Being fairly new to the life style I am searching way to humiliate my male sub. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.



Go to a munch or play party and ask people, publicly this same question. Your man will be mortified.






MercTech -> RE: humiliation (12/30/2013 11:04:37 AM)

Get him a dance belt and have him wear it out shopping with you.. <see ballet supplies, like a wonderbra for the butt combined with a padded codpiece on some>

A domme buddy of mine in Orlando used to take her harem out and have them dance for her wearing them and it was quite the attention getter.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: humiliation (12/30/2013 4:33:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FemDomcpl4play

Being fairly new to the life style I am searching way to humiliate my male sub. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

I have lots of ideas but I'm using them on my own sub. Figure out your own. We internet strangers don't know you, him, or what's humiliating to him. Come to think of it, a Domme w/o any ideas should be humiliating enough!

NBMG



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