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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/1/2013 8:09:39 AM

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Can I assume that the women that criticize this relationship, because the sub has a girlfriend that doesn't know, also criticize the many women on here that are married or involved and want to be "discrete"?

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/1/2013 11:30:29 AM

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Damn straight. Anyone who is dating/screwing/having a romantic relationship behind the back of their partner is doing something scummy. If everyone is aware and on board, no problems. Mistreating the person you've committed to is a sign of being untrustworthy.

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/1/2013 11:34:15 AM

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I can only speak for myself. But yes. I would have a problem with anyone coming on here and complaining about a problem in a relationship , if they are cheating on another who is completely in the dark.
In my mind, that person is a liar, and just is not basically a trustworthy person.

I have absolutely NO problem with poly, or open! If everyone knows , it's just peachy with me. it's the dishonesty I have an issue with. Be it male or female.

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/4/2013 5:03:49 PM

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Can I assume that the women that criticize this relationship, because the sub has a girlfriend that doesn't know, also criticize the many women on here that are married or involved and want to be "discrete"?

Female cheaters are definitely also criticized.

Here's a thread on the topic. (There was a more recent one, but I can't find it.) Cheating spouses: Are males treated differently than females on this forum?

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/4/2013 5:13:09 PM

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Can I assume that the women that criticize this relationship, because the sub has a girlfriend that doesn't know, also criticize the many women on here that are married or involved and want to be "discrete"?

Bet your banana hammock, I do.

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/4/2013 5:36:32 PM

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Can I assume that the women that criticize this relationship, because the sub has a girlfriend that doesn't know, also criticize the many women on here that are married or involved and want to be "discrete"?

you bet your wee willie winkie we do.

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/4/2013 7:23:22 PM

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Can I assume that the women that criticize this relationship, because the sub has a girlfriend that doesn't know, also criticize the many women on here that are married or involved and want to be "discrete"?

Quite frankly if you are doing something to hurt an innocent person (and being cheated on fucking hurts like hell), you deserve every ounce of criticism you get. Want to step out of your relationship, do the honorable thing and break up with them. But don't have your cake, eat it too, and expect much sympathy.

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/4/2013 8:50:04 PM

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It seems like those things are making it difficult for me to come up with some ideas.

Nah,give credit where credit is due. It ain't the external circumstances as much as it is the lack of internal originality.

Be the source of your own evil suckas,don't come vampire offa mine. I work hard for that shit, stay up late at night scheming and plotting. Real evil takes effort, it don't just come natural, ya know.

I picture Kana working late at night in a stone walled dungeon by the flickering pale yellow torch light when suddenly, a light bulb in chat bubble goes on over his head and he start laughing manically and mumbling, "yes... yes... my precious... a porcupine, a glass coffin, ...yes... some mouse traps and a cattle prod ...yes... that will do it".

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/5/2013 4:52:49 AM

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Can I assume that the women that criticize this relationship, because the sub has a girlfriend that doesn't know, also criticize the many women on here that are married or involved and want to be "discrete"?

From what I have seen on here, yes they do. They also tend to snark on those who come here, claim to be masters and then admit they don't have a clue what to do with the slave they just collared.

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RE: Humiliation/Degrading - 11/5/2013 5:09:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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It seems like those things are making it difficult for me to come up with some ideas.

Nah,give credit where credit is due. It ain't the external circumstances as much as it is the lack of internal originality.

Be the source of your own evil suckas,don't come vampire offa mine. I work hard for that shit, stay up late at night scheming and plotting. Real evil takes effort, it don't just come natural, ya know.

I picture Kana working late at night in a stone walled dungeon by the flickering pale yellow torch light when suddenly, a light bulb in chat bubble goes on over his head and he start laughing manically and mumbling, "yes... yes... my precious... a porcupine, a glass coffin, ...yes... some mouse traps and a cattle prod ...yes... that will do it".