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this notice has "some " saftey points!!!!! - 11/17/2004 11:25:32 AM

serVie

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NOTICE TO ALL ADULT FEMALES

Re: Alternative lifestyle chat rooms of adult nature

Remember,
These chat rooms are adult fun…and adult fun only!
If consenting adults choose to meet each other in REAL TIME,
PLEASE, PLEASE , PLEASE, for your SAFETY, and MENTAL HEALTH, know WHO you are dealing with.

Many of these “ fakers” can do some serious damage to you ONCE you fall into their “ what YOU want to hear” trap. Yes we are ALL intelligent adults, but you know that we sometimes fall….and fall hard, for these lines of being taken care of, your the love of my life, I’ve been burned by so many , I don’t know if I can feel or trust again lines….and so on and so on.

Listen up ladies of all adult ages!!!!!
Check them out first, do background checks if you have to!
Do not go to meet them, and if you just “gotta” meet, have them pay and come to see YOU in a public place, and that is only….only after you have had time to get to know each other…if it comes to that. And let someone know your going out to meet them. This is a good safety tactic!

This can be arousing, fun, seductive. And it is addictive at times. But lets take it for what it is….make believe…pretending.

If we just live life to the fullest, and just get out there…and actually meet people instead of looking at the pc screen…most of the time, we can have a balance in our lives. We are beautiful women of all shapes, colors and sizes. YOU know that don’t you? I thought so.J

I know at times we just need to get our “ yummies ” on . ..and hey, were human, yes ? Just play it cool and safe!

*Written by a beautiful adult woman who likes to play online……but had a hard reality check …and now enjoys living life by taking things in moderation and enjoying the entire world outside the computer screen every once in a while. J

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RE: this notice has "some " saftey points!!!!! - 11/17/2004 6:01:32 PM

sweetpleaser

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Thank you for the safety pointers. We should never forget them.

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~ann~

It's not the men in my life that count, it's the life in my men.--Mae West

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RE: this notice has "some " saftey points!!!!! - 11/17/2004 7:30:03 PM

inadazey

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Great advice, and thank you for posting!

And may I add.. whenever I've gone on first vanilla dates, I've also always given the person's name and home phone number (Caller ID doesn't lie) to someone I trust and let him know "a trusted person has it" just in case. So I recommend this.

Also, and this is a big one for me: ALWAYS trust your intuition!!! If something feels not right, or you have any "iffy" feelings at all about the person, then work under the assumption that something IS wrong, and don't meet him.

Unfortunately, there are lots of dangers for women in this world. And even more when you add online meetings into the picture.
Here's hoping *everyone* stays safe! ~daisy~

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